Rousette
"To turn a blind eye to all of this is incomprehensible to me. And it's why I've gone from quite the royalist decades ago to completely the opposite now."
Interesting.
Do you think in any way that HMQ has kind of - well not exactly given up - but more gone a bit de-mob happy /AWOL and just does not care any more since DofEd died?
She must be heartily sick of the drama down the years and I expect DofEd somehow humoured her through it and she does not have that now.
That would explain it if she takes the "I am only regarding him as my son and nothing else, I don't care what happens after I die so I am going to give PA all of the honours I like now" approach.
And I am sure she is totally tone deaf to the moral angle of it especially if she knew (which I think she did) that DofEd was unfaithful to her himself (not sure who with, I dont know enough) but she just expected it and did not care who the third party was herself.