Just going back to Camilla, I was one of those people who thought she behaved appallingly (as did PC), and could never envisage supporting her as Queen.
Years have gone by - yes, she is a better fit with Charles, and they seem happy. Also, she's kept quiet, not grouched and done her bit.
Although I would now expect her to be Queen (eventually!), I wonder if to be truly accepted she would need to apologize in public for her part in the breakdown of the Wales' marriage. If she did so, I would have more respect for her - as I would Charles.
Sorry for this on an H & M thread.