Oh yes, her brother. I’d forgotten about the other people on her mums side.
I imagine the reason the RF didn’t manage the situation with the photos is because H&M didn’t let them. This puts me in mind of those now infamous words of Harry’s “what Meg wants, she gets”. I think perhaps he failed to ask the RF to intervene and if true, went rogue before the wedding even took place. She refused to take direction after the marriage and putting the pieces together also not before otherwise Harry and the rest of the RF would have been involved in inviting her side of the family. And putting a time line together, she fell out with kate just before the wedding, ie within a couple of days of this incident.
Taking a step back, with Meghan, I’m thinking Harry let her manage the whole darn shit show and shut down his family even before the wedding. Because she gets what she wants... no wonder the queen was super nice to her from the start. I bet everyone was trying to keep Meghan sweet.