I think it’s disgusting and misogynist how Megan is getting so much blame for it like it’s all her decisions Rather than a joint decision.
I agree. So many people are keen to 'blame the woman.'
If she was so keen on manipulating herself into the princess dream then she would stay and do the photo ops for all the fame, jewellery and public subservience.
There is a chance (quite a significant one) that Megan is supporting her husband's deep seated choice and seeing his understandable psychological damage she is making an attempt to liberate and rescue him.
At the end of the day -he lost his beloved Mum tragically, he is brought up aware of acute duty & entitlement. A possible spare King in waiting. Yet he isn't equal to his sibling- never can be. He is the spare then gets demoted progressively to 3,4,5 etc each time William has children.
Harry has given many clues such as:
" There's a lot of times that both myself and my brother wish obviously that we were just, you know, completely normal," he said. "But, you know, we've been born into this position. And then therefore, we'll do what we need to do to make a difference to the people and to kids that need it, you know?"
" .. William and I ... We are not doing this for ourselves but for the greater good of the people…. Is there any one of the royal family who wants to be king or queen? I don't think so, but we will carry out our duties at the right time."
Prince Harry told Newsweekk^ in 2017 that he was in a rush to "to make something of my life. I feel there is just a smallish window when people are interested in me before [William's children] take over, and I've got to make the most of it."
Why isn't the possibility of his wife being his mentor and rescuer even considered?