Sorry to butt in but was sent a link to this thread for someone to talk to.
I've been out tonight around town with an old friend. Not been for years.
Ended up in a bar with the woman my ex left me for (they are no longer together and he now sends me messages every day). I don't think she saw me but....
On one hand thank the lord that I have finally reached the point that my counsellor said I would....."you will be in the same room one day and it won't bother you"..... I guess that's true, but also not or I wouldn't be posting lol!
But low and behold the penny has dropped. We lost a child together then he cleated. Had a child with her. Obviously that child is totally innocent and I wish no ill on them.
However tonight has made me see...why the hell am I engaging in these Messages??? We slept together for a few years but that stopped in 2020 yet the contact continues...
I have moved home, got a new job. My whole life has changed yet still this link to the past. Tonight has been like reliving my youth...going back to the same old haunts but no....I'm not that person anymore.
I'm quite spiritual and I honestly think tonight was showing me what I needed to see/hear...
Any thoughts? Please be kind