I grew up on a council estate,with a mother who 'indulged' in drinks drugs and men not always in that order - we ate what she remembered to buy- never saw a dentist and certainly werent indulged in any way.
I have never smoked
had my first drink at 17
have never taken any non prescription drugs
rarely drink
yet my dc are healthy children with good teeth and a healthy lifestyle.
council estate doesnt = ignorance.
these people need a hefty kick up the arse.