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Caroline Flack - search for the truth - Disney

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Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 11:01

Dropped this morning on Disney.

Wow 😞😞😞😞 am absolutely speechless after watching this. So much we didn't know.

That was her blood on the bed, shame on you The Sun newspaper for buying this photo and stating that it was the bf .

Shame on you the detective who inserted herself into something that was none of her business and made this much worse than it was and for lying.

Shame on you the prosecutor who at Caroline's plea hearing you spoke lies.

Caroline's mum ❤️❤️❤️ her family and friend who were involved in the documentary, very well done and very informative, the newspapers need to print an apology.

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Dollymylove · 10/11/2025 14:44

Its very sad. Fingers are being pointed at Caroline's friends, who actually tried desperately to help her. She just wouldnt listen. Very unfair on those friends

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:45

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:43

The detective who came in duty and escalated it. I agree it was a minor crime, the CPS did too but this detective appealed the CPS decision saying it was much worse. I feel it was ott

So you agree it was a minor crime but presumably don’t think minor crimes should be prosecuted? I can’t understand what your position is at all. You seem to think she was charged with a really serious violent offence like GBH - she wasn’t, she was charged with the most minor offence possible (assault). Should assaults in themselves not be prosecuted?

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:45

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:43

An assault is not a ‘major crime’, it’s literally the lowest form of violent criminal charge possible - technically you don’t even have to make physical contact with somebody to assault them, just put them in fear that it might happen. It has almost zero prospect of a prison sentence and she most likely would’ve got a fine.

I agree, I absolutely don't feel it was a major crime. It should have been left at a warning.

The detective appealed the CPS decision of a warning which I feel was ott

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Doseofreality · 10/11/2025 14:47

On the second episode now, Jesus her Mother is one self entitled brat. “My investigation”, “My investigation” blah blah blah and smugly calling people up, whilst on camera, and expecting everyone to be available to her.
It jusf comes across that she believes her Daughter should have got a free pass because she was Caroline Flack off the telly,

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:47

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:45

I agree, I absolutely don't feel it was a major crime. It should have been left at a warning.

The detective appealed the CPS decision of a warning which I feel was ott

Which is why I think it was due to her name and fame and getting the media on side.

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:48

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:47

Which is why I think it was due to her name and fame and getting the media on side.

I’ve seen probably hundreds of assaults successfully convicted for a lot less than in this case.

anytipswelcome · 10/11/2025 14:48

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:39

But what I'm trying to say is, if the detective felt this was a major crime, would they not take the lamp ? Yes I agree for a minor dispute they wouldn't do a detailed investigation, but this detective felt this was a major crime, surely then the lamp would be taken?

An assault would not be considered a ‘major crime’, that is a specific term for crimes involving specialist investigation teams, coordination, and extended resources.

Attempted murder, organised crime related killings, kidnapping, high level corruption, contract killing etc.

Not a domestic assault.

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:48

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:45

I agree, I absolutely don't feel it was a major crime. It should have been left at a warning.

The detective appealed the CPS decision of a warning which I feel was ott

I can well believe (in fact- I do believe) that she was made an example of. A famous woman, assaulting a man, at a time when the police were doing a lot of work generally to highlight how seriously they take DV.

however, examples aren’t unusual. I have a parent who was made an example of in the last 70s for drink driving with an excessive ban and fine- at the time judges were coming down heavily as a deterrent to something most people thought was sort of ok. It happens. It’s not that outrageous.

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:49

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:45

So you agree it was a minor crime but presumably don’t think minor crimes should be prosecuted? I can’t understand what your position is at all. You seem to think she was charged with a really serious violent offence like GBH - she wasn’t, she was charged with the most minor offence possible (assault). Should assaults in themselves not be prosecuted?

I've constantly said it was minor, I'm confused as to why the detective said it was worse, all crimes should be punished, I felt a warning was sufficient for this one, not escalated as it ended up being

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IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:49

Doseofreality · 10/11/2025 14:47

On the second episode now, Jesus her Mother is one self entitled brat. “My investigation”, “My investigation” blah blah blah and smugly calling people up, whilst on camera, and expecting everyone to be available to her.
It jusf comes across that she believes her Daughter should have got a free pass because she was Caroline Flack off the telly,

I agree - I don’t think her mum came across great at all and her use of ‘investigation’ was grating but she is a bereaved mum who probably has a lot regrets and really shouldn’t be doing documentaries like this. But then I watched it so I am fuelling the fire 🤷🏽‍♀️

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:50

anytipswelcome · 10/11/2025 14:48

An assault would not be considered a ‘major crime’, that is a specific term for crimes involving specialist investigation teams, coordination, and extended resources.

Attempted murder, organised crime related killings, kidnapping, high level corruption, contract killing etc.

Not a domestic assault.

The detective felt it was, not me 😞

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Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:50

Also I think the young woman/ age thing is relevant- she was so immature. Getting paralytic and having a drunken fight with a drunk toxic partner isn’t unfamiliar but is much more common amongst much younger couples who haven’t learnt to handle with their booze or emotions. She was absolutely much older than she behaved. It’s like she was stuck in 2003.

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:50

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:48

I’ve seen probably hundreds of assaults successfully convicted for a lot less than in this case.

I am happy to hear that and am just sorry that hasn’t been the case for me and my mum in cases of DA

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:55

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:50

Also I think the young woman/ age thing is relevant- she was so immature. Getting paralytic and having a drunken fight with a drunk toxic partner isn’t unfamiliar but is much more common amongst much younger couples who haven’t learnt to handle with their booze or emotions. She was absolutely much older than she behaved. It’s like she was stuck in 2003.

Yes - I think that’s right. She came across as someone in her 20s. Single, childless (nothing wrong with any of that) drinking, chasing fame - but not your a typical middle aged woman who has their life sorted (not judging that either - I am 49, same age as my mum when she died - and I most definitely don’t have my life sorted and I battle with my mh. But I don’t rely on public opinion to validate me or enable me to have a job

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:56

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:49

I've constantly said it was minor, I'm confused as to why the detective said it was worse, all crimes should be punished, I felt a warning was sufficient for this one, not escalated as it ended up being

Honestly - if a man hits his wife and admits doing so, do you think a caution is satisfactory? If she phones 999 scared for her safety?

MILLYmo0se · 10/11/2025 14:56

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 14:49

I've constantly said it was minor, I'm confused as to why the detective said it was worse, all crimes should be punished, I felt a warning was sufficient for this one, not escalated as it ended up being

I think an appearance and a fine is more appropriate than just a caution for someone hitting their partner tbh. Are you thinking this was escalated to something so serious she could go to prison? That was nt my understanding of the charge but maybe I misunderstand how it works in the UK

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:57

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 14:50

I am happy to hear that and am just sorry that hasn’t been the case for me and my mum in cases of DA

Me too. My mum was also the victim of DV which, eventually, went through the criminal court system. It took her years to get there though. It was terrifying for all of us.

StillCreatingAName · 10/11/2025 14:58

inital thoughts are that her Mum needs to wind her neck in.

OP- is this the kind of comment you were hoping to solicit by starting this grotty thread?

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:58

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:56

Honestly - if a man hits his wife and admits doing so, do you think a caution is satisfactory? If she phones 999 scared for her safety?

My understanding of this situation is she cut herself?! Wasn’t it clear from the beginning via both their stories to the police that she hasn’t hit him with the lamp?

Ticklyoctopus · 10/11/2025 14:59

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:58

My understanding of this situation is she cut herself?! Wasn’t it clear from the beginning via both their stories to the police that she hasn’t hit him with the lamp?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-53679454.amp

Caroline Flack

Caroline Flack 'hit boyfriend over cheating fears', inquest hears - BBC News

The TV star's mother says if she was "an ordinary person" she wouldn't have been charged with assault.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-53679454.amp

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 15:00

StillCreatingAName · 10/11/2025 14:58

inital thoughts are that her Mum needs to wind her neck in.

OP- is this the kind of comment you were hoping to solicit by starting this grotty thread?

God no, absolutely not. I just wanted to discuss the programme, tbh I'm very sorry that my thread made people write this. I'll get it deleted. So sorry

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TheRealMagic · 10/11/2025 15:00

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:58

My understanding of this situation is she cut herself?! Wasn’t it clear from the beginning via both their stories to the police that she hasn’t hit him with the lamp?

She told the police when they arrived that she had hit him round the head.

MILLYmo0se · 10/11/2025 15:04

Bambamhoohoo · 10/11/2025 14:58

My understanding of this situation is she cut herself?! Wasn’t it clear from the beginning via both their stories to the police that she hasn’t hit him with the lamp?

But she did hit him, then cut herself after the police were called

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 15:05

I still believe (sadly) that if Caroline had been an unknown person from a council estate, or even a middle class family, the prosecution wouldn’t have moved forward. I like to think it would have done but my experience tells me it wouldn’t and this was media led.

I would like to know how many women have been prosecuted for a single act of DA similar to this incident where the victim had no need of medical attention and the instigator had slit their wrists and had mh issues.

IAmKerplunk · 10/11/2025 15:05

Livingthebestlife · 10/11/2025 15:00

God no, absolutely not. I just wanted to discuss the programme, tbh I'm very sorry that my thread made people write this. I'll get it deleted. So sorry

I think it’s an interesting discussion we are having and for the most part people are being respectful.