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MAFS #6 Now Bez has gone, who will follow? Perhaps PaRaper the Rapper, Steve, who lives to deceive, or the polite misogynist who just wants to be loved..

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menopausalfart · 07/10/2025 17:00

NO SPOILERS.

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FirstCuppa · 08/10/2025 23:40

Empress13 · 08/10/2025 23:35

They bleeped out f***g muggy

I think they edit it for the catch up as it wasn't in the live version.
Bit dodgy they're editing it even after airing! Room for manipulating things there again.

Mafsisback · 08/10/2025 23:40

Hmm I wonder if Dean actually believes what he’s saying that he’s “nearly there” in “making her” like him.

Or he’s just doing that to try and build suspense so people feel sorry for him when his dreams crash and burn on national tv and he gets lots of followers?

His friend doesn’t even seem convinced.

Does anyone remember Luke from a few seasons back? He was coupled with Morag who didn’t find him attractive initially. She did start to like him a bit and they had sex but they still had their issues.

He then ended up getting so much positive attention on social media especially from women. According to Morag he became a bit cocky and stopped trying with her - and according to him he just found his worth.

I imagine Dean hopes that will be his journey! I’m sure he’d happily dump Sarah after he got her hooked (which won’t happen) if he had a a lot of other options.

JaneJeffer · 08/10/2025 23:43

Oh the communal lasagne has appeared. Nobody’s eating it though.

FirstCuppa · 08/10/2025 23:43

JellyBeanSpring25 · 08/10/2025 23:35

Loving April and Hot Dog Leo. I so hope they find love with each other.

Sarah is drowning. I wanted to reach in and save her. She is aware that the edit will have shown her unfavourably and is frightened. Frightened not only of social media but of what is being expected of her.

She really is too terrified to say anything. You could see her friend look at the camera man and clock that she couldn't be honest about how she was feeling at all or it would be fed back. Completely trapped and horrible to watch, a version of mental torture.

FirstCuppa · 08/10/2025 23:46

Mafsisback · 08/10/2025 23:40

Hmm I wonder if Dean actually believes what he’s saying that he’s “nearly there” in “making her” like him.

Or he’s just doing that to try and build suspense so people feel sorry for him when his dreams crash and burn on national tv and he gets lots of followers?

His friend doesn’t even seem convinced.

Does anyone remember Luke from a few seasons back? He was coupled with Morag who didn’t find him attractive initially. She did start to like him a bit and they had sex but they still had their issues.

He then ended up getting so much positive attention on social media especially from women. According to Morag he became a bit cocky and stopped trying with her - and according to him he just found his worth.

I imagine Dean hopes that will be his journey! I’m sure he’d happily dump Sarah after he got her hooked (which won’t happen) if he had a a lot of other options.

I think it's more his mate is chosing not to see his comments as creepy because it's "loveable Dean" with apparent charisma (!). Dean is very good at mimicing what people say and do - see wavy hands with Sarah and nodding all the time and repeating what others say. He is a chameleon, as the best manipulators are. Men don't see this as threatening because they don't understand abuse.

JaneJeffer · 08/10/2025 23:48

Somebody break Sarah out of there!

Mafsisback · 08/10/2025 23:48

FirstCuppa · 08/10/2025 23:46

I think it's more his mate is chosing not to see his comments as creepy because it's "loveable Dean" with apparent charisma (!). Dean is very good at mimicing what people say and do - see wavy hands with Sarah and nodding all the time and repeating what others say. He is a chameleon, as the best manipulators are. Men don't see this as threatening because they don't understand abuse.

Yeah I think Deans quite manipulative and is definitely wearing a mask.

I just can’t forget how he said he became an arsehole to women once he lost the weight?!

JaneJeffer · 08/10/2025 23:52

Leo looks a bit like James Norton

FirstCuppa · 08/10/2025 23:52

Mafsisback · 08/10/2025 23:48

Yeah I think Deans quite manipulative and is definitely wearing a mask.

I just can’t forget how he said he became an arsehole to women once he lost the weight?!

I've no doubt he will find someone after this and probably sell his story of how sad Sarah made him and milk Sad Dean for years. The producers are enabling it because it's an easy sell "poor fat guy rejected by strong woman", only she isn't and is actively grieving her dead mum, where Dean just made himself fat to look like less of a dick.

ExtraPaddingForFallingOver · 08/10/2025 23:53

Dillite2 · 07/10/2025 21:15

I figured who he reminds me of!!! The creepy smiley guy from From

Oh my god, this guy freaked me out when I watched From, that smile 😬 I not going to be able to see Reiss in other way!

NewGirlInTown · 09/10/2025 01:14

cramptramp · 08/10/2025 10:27

Leisha described herself as a ‘young girl’. She’s 34 fgs 😁

She is ridiculous. Botox and lip filler a go go. At 34!
She seemed to only care if Reiss fancied her, thought she was attractive etc. All the questions!! It was like a job interview. I don’t know if they are allowed to say “can you pack it in with the interrogation” but I would have been sorely tempted.
She is going to bore him to death; another vapid airhead, thinking ‘bubbly’ is a desirable personality trait..
Why does Reiss keep doing that weird thing with his mouth?
Another doomed pairing.

Italiangreyhound · 09/10/2025 01:45

Leo and April are fab, they look right together. yes, he does look a bit like James Norton, gorgeous.

I felt so sorry for Sarah, it's all gone so wrong and she cannot get out of it.

Italiangreyhound · 09/10/2025 01:51

It's time time time for the couples swap (in my mind).

I'd like to see Sarah with Divarni
Nelly with Ashley

HugelyExpensiveCrystalDuck · 09/10/2025 07:11

RancidRuby · 08/10/2025 21:10

I'm a bit behind because I forgot it started earlier. Dean and his mate are giving incel vibes, they are utterly repulsive. Sarah needs to leave but I suspect she won't because she knows she's been portrayed as a baddie and desperately wants to turn that around.

I don’t think she’s going to get a redemption arc because the ixperts have been such dicks to her that surely they can’t then portray her as anything but the bad guy. I feel so sorry for her.

71Alex · 09/10/2025 08:07

JaneJeffer · 08/10/2025 23:38

It’s not a matter of if it’s a matter of when* *shut up Dean

And this coming straight after Sarah’s friend saying ‘I think things will fall naturally into place if they’re going to’. Dean then appears to be agreeing with her ‘yes that’s what I say…’ but in fact then says the opposite. I wish she’d picked him up on it.

I’m hoping Sarah’s friend got a chance to talk with her off camera. We saw Dean’s friend telling the camera he’s worried for Dean, but there was no direct to camera from Sarah’s friend shown.

FirstCuppa · 09/10/2025 09:24

71Alex · 09/10/2025 08:07

And this coming straight after Sarah’s friend saying ‘I think things will fall naturally into place if they’re going to’. Dean then appears to be agreeing with her ‘yes that’s what I say…’ but in fact then says the opposite. I wish she’d picked him up on it.

I’m hoping Sarah’s friend got a chance to talk with her off camera. We saw Dean’s friend telling the camera he’s worried for Dean, but there was no direct to camera from Sarah’s friend shown.

I'm actually glad because it would be weaponised against her. Poor woman is going to have enough trouble after this I suspect.

I've realised his mate is trying to be Jay from Inbetweeners. What a knob.

ImSoPeopledOut · 09/10/2025 09:57

The only "it's not if but when" around there is "it's not if she is going to dump you Dean, but when"

SignatureShortdeads · 09/10/2025 10:13

Watching the newest hot dog couple (completely forgotten their names overnight 🫠), it felt like a totally different TV show. It felt calm, natural and full of positivity. It really felt like they were genuine and not there for the 5 minutes of fame. I want to keep them separate from the vacuous dinner parties as I just can’t see them fitting in amongst the chaos.

MajorcanWater · 09/10/2025 11:12

Donttellempike · 08/10/2025 21:34

You aren’t the thread police

Well said, Pike

JaneJeffer · 09/10/2025 11:20

I’ve got wedding present for Dean

MAFS #6  Now Bez has gone, who will follow? Perhaps PaRaper the Rapper, Steve, who lives to deceive, or the polite misogynist who just wants to be loved..
BatchCookBabe · 09/10/2025 11:32

NewGirlInTown · 09/10/2025 01:14

She is ridiculous. Botox and lip filler a go go. At 34!
She seemed to only care if Reiss fancied her, thought she was attractive etc. All the questions!! It was like a job interview. I don’t know if they are allowed to say “can you pack it in with the interrogation” but I would have been sorely tempted.
She is going to bore him to death; another vapid airhead, thinking ‘bubbly’ is a desirable personality trait..
Why does Reiss keep doing that weird thing with his mouth?
Another doomed pairing.

Coming in late a bit here, and am still one episode behind sorry.

Leisha's botox looks awful. Why do these young women do this to themselves?! Reiss looks like Jimmy Carr. He totally fancies himself, but he is not all that IMO.
Julia Ruth and Divarni are annoying me now. (Him moreso.) They need to leave.

ExtraPaddingForFallingOver · 09/10/2025 12:20

Just catching on on last night’s episode
the bit with Sarah and her friend, Sarah is saying it as clear as day,

”I’m just being very, very mindful of what I’m saying. But it’s now to the point where I honestly don’t feel I can be myself” “I’m really struggling!”

they should be stepping in!

FirstCuppa · 09/10/2025 12:26

ExtraPaddingForFallingOver · 09/10/2025 12:20

Just catching on on last night’s episode
the bit with Sarah and her friend, Sarah is saying it as clear as day,

”I’m just being very, very mindful of what I’m saying. But it’s now to the point where I honestly don’t feel I can be myself” “I’m really struggling!”

they should be stepping in!

I completely agree - the friend even looks shiftily at the camera with the realisation that their chat has to be very bland. It's so wrong and very coercive.
I really hope Ofcom do look into the ethics of these shows and stop them. It's chilling viewing and hard to believe it's allowed in 2025.

I wish we could have a show with actual behavioural scientists and psychologists properly matching people and helping them, rather than drama pairings and abusive bullying.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 09/10/2025 12:29

Agree, April and Leo are a great match, I hope it lasts.

Florencesndzebedee · 09/10/2025 13:12

So, so sorry for Sarah. Really hope she is getting some support now and this situation is not allowed to reoccur.

Dean can’t even cook! Unfortunately he doesn’t have any redeeming features that would make him a good partner.

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