Omg you don't think Ryan could die??
WASH OUT YOUR MOUTH!!! 😦
Catherine was so vile to everyone tonight. And the way she mocked Tekeli, all seemed very much out of character for her.
Tekeli is a thick tw*t. In organisations like the police there is a very thin line between bullying and bonding - nicknames, practical jokes etc are part of the bonding process among people who work in very stressful and dangerous environments in the same way that black humour is.
Teleki is going to be in situations on the street where he will need to know that his colleagues have his back - and being prepared to take a joke is an important part of it. In many organisations it's a way of welcoming someone onto the team. I'm not saying it's right, but it helps colleagues get the measure of each other and establish their place in the group. People who stand on their dignity all the time are hard to work with. You've got to be able to have a bit of craic. Teleki's turn this time, someone else's next.
I've been in both work-type situations - bullying and joshing, and there is a difference, in the same way that in families (and police etc are very much "families") there is internal teasing that may look awful from the outside, but is actually an expression of affection.
I'm not defending bullying, but mutual teasing and black humour are the only way that horrific situations can be coped with sometimes.