Just after some advice
Dd15 has a lovely bf who is 17
He treats her nicely and is lovely to me and my younger son
The other week she told me they had had sex. I made sure she had been safe (she had) and that he was respectful but I also told her that she is very young and also him being older is also an issue. I strongly tried to encourage her too wait until she's a bit older
However emptying her bin and there are condoms in there.
He is allowed in the house and in her room but they have to leave the door open. This clearly hasn't stopped them!
It's only a small flat so they're either in her room or hanging out with me in the living room! It's freezing here so they go out for an hour but then want to be inside.
If I tell her he's not allowed in her room I think she will either end up doing it outdoors or somewhere else.
How do I navigate this without her thinking it's just all fine (or indeed is it all just fine??)