OP, you are very angry with your dd.
Can't you dig down deep and feel any love for her? Think of her as a baby and small child.
My own dd went through 3 years of unbearable behaviour at home which nearly broke me and the whole family, and the best advice I got was 'love her most when she deserves it least'. I know it's very very hard to do when you are completely at the end of your tether, as you clearly are.
FWIW, after having spent years resenting my dd and feeling outraged that she wasn't contrite about the awful things she'd said and done, she was diagnosed with anxiety, depression and a whole host of serious mental health problems for which at 16 she's now in treatment. I am able to me more loving to her now and life is bearable again for all of us.
Something else which influenced me was reading threads on the relationships board by adults who have never got over their parents turning their backs on them when they were still children (as your dd is). I don't want to be that mum. Do you?
Social services helped me, as did the police, Parent Line, and CAMHS (sort of). My dd's school were also helpful. You should be reaching out for help with your family situation. It's the right thing to do.