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What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?

91 replies

loveawineloveacrisp · 01/09/2026 18:32

Considering these but they're expensive for what they are. But I want soft leather, and I like the elastic strap. Fed up of wearing trainers in the 'in between' season.

https://share.google/VQyV1LO7DTGfkU52A

Has anyone found anything lovely?

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bababamama · Yesterday 12:27

I’m wearing an old pair today, Clark’s circa 15 years old and have been commented on asking where I got them … trick is a non slip sole for autumn.

NeroChange · Yesterday 12:28

I wear Ballerette ballet flats all year round.

StylishAndBeautiful · Yesterday 12:30

@Frendslikethese ,try Lanx or Grenson, or see what your favourite brands have.

Piknik · Yesterday 12:31

I am looking for a slingback ballet flat if anyone can help me?

Soft leather
Slingback (elastic or buckle)
Round toe (not pointy)
Soft sole (ideally beige or white rubber flat)
nude/pale pink/gold

If I was being super picky, the slingback would be small, by that I mean the leather from the toe would run quite far down the sides before the cutout rather than a slingback strap that starts just after the toe coverage. Don't know if that makes sense.

I am pretty sure I am going to have to make these out of papier mache or something (!) because I have been looking all year with no joy. If someone does come across anything remotely like that, please please link or PM! Thanks

Corknut · Yesterday 12:37

I went for the aloha Rosalind flats after a significant deep dive. No regrets

Enko · Yesterday 13:00

https://www.office.co.uk/view/product/office_catalog/7,2033/5415000078
I went with Birkenstock I really like them. I wear a lot of ballet type flat shoes as I can't tolerate boots (feet massively overheat)

I am considering the fitflop ones too

BIRKENSTOCK Santa Clarita Mary Janes Black Leather - Flat Shoes for Women

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https://www.office.co.uk/view/product/office_catalog/7,2033/5415000078

MiddleAgedDread · Yesterday 13:04

they're not ballet flats, they're mary janes and ugly looking ones at that!
I'm with @Frendslikethese on the victorian orphan boot thing! Josef Siebel, Ecco or Reiker are usually a good starting point Lace Ankle Boots

Lace Ankle Boots

Browse our range of Ankle Boots with Lace Fastening

https://www.rogersonshoes.com/womens-c2/boots-c5/ankle-boots-c19/lace-t257#page3

patooties · Yesterday 13:08

Those fit flops look like they have been designed by the NHS (as do most fit flops)

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · Yesterday 13:11

On nice autumn days I simply wear the same ballet flats I might have worn in summer or spring. I don’t own autumn specific ballet flats… But I do prefer loafers for autumn.

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 13:11

StylishAndBeautiful · Yesterday 10:53

The ballet flats in the OP look orthopaedic and not in a good way. Sneakerinas are fugly. Boots and trainers for me. I don't like loafers.

I'd agree - though not as orthopaedic as some of the other suggestions (all depends on whether comfort trumps style though). I think they look best in the olive green.

loveawineloveacrisp · Yesterday 13:12

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · Yesterday 13:11

On nice autumn days I simply wear the same ballet flats I might have worn in summer or spring. I don’t own autumn specific ballet flats… But I do prefer loafers for autumn.

I didn't have any for Spring or summer!

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 13:16

Piknik · Yesterday 12:31

I am looking for a slingback ballet flat if anyone can help me?

Soft leather
Slingback (elastic or buckle)
Round toe (not pointy)
Soft sole (ideally beige or white rubber flat)
nude/pale pink/gold

If I was being super picky, the slingback would be small, by that I mean the leather from the toe would run quite far down the sides before the cutout rather than a slingback strap that starts just after the toe coverage. Don't know if that makes sense.

I am pretty sure I am going to have to make these out of papier mache or something (!) because I have been looking all year with no joy. If someone does come across anything remotely like that, please please link or PM! Thanks

Sort of like these? Chocolate/red/caramel though. And presume the sole isn't what you're after?

https://www.soeur.uk/products/slingbacks-emmett-chocolat-cha1616emmett25smar05

Slingbacks Emmett - Chocolate Soft Leather Women - Soeur

The Emmett slingbacks in soft chocolate leather for women feature a round toe and a fine elastic ankle strap. LWG-certified leather.

https://www.soeur.uk/products/slingbacks-emmett-chocolat-cha1616emmett25smar05

RaraRachael · Yesterday 13:17

I havd old pairs of flats - black and navy - from M and S. They're so comfortable but the soles are starting to wear thin.
I'm desperate for something to replace them

Piknik · Yesterday 13:47

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 13:16

Sort of like these? Chocolate/red/caramel though. And presume the sole isn't what you're after?

https://www.soeur.uk/products/slingbacks-emmett-chocolat-cha1616emmett25smar05

They are getting close. Toe is a weird shape though - very deep. They also have a hard sole. Too £££ for something that's not quite right. Thank you though!

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 13:54

Piknik · Yesterday 13:47

They are getting close. Toe is a weird shape though - very deep. They also have a hard sole. Too £££ for something that's not quite right. Thank you though!

Edited

Too square a toe? If you had to compromise (as you probably will), what would it be on? Colour, toe shape, sole type - height??

https://www.dunelondon.com/heartbeat-leather-slingback-ballet-flats-dark-pink-0075510780042857.html

Heartbeat Dark Pink, Leather Slingback Ballet Flats | Dune London

Shop Heartbeat Dark Pink Leather Slingback Ballet Flats at Dune London. Take your casual styling to the next level with our Women's Shoes range. Next day delivery.

https://www.dunelondon.com/heartbeat-leather-slingback-ballet-flats-dark-pink-0075510780042857.html

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 13:55

Sorry - image here.

What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?
EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 14:03

@Piknik - more pale pink.

https://stevemadden.co.uk/products/cutesy-306

https://girotti.co.uk/slip-on-shoes/square-toe-flat-shoes-55804.html

Fly London Women's Saub268fly Ballet https://amzn.eu/d/0bFLj4U8

What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?
What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?
What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?
Piknik · Yesterday 14:16

Some good suggestions - thanks. Will go through these carefully.

This is what I really had in mind - but slingback. This weight/toe shape/sole. This is Jones Bootmaker and I would have sucked up the lack of slingback for this one but they don't have my size anywhere (7).

I might have to compromise. Sometimes, in this world of excess and retail overload, it is hard to believe that the thing in your head might not actually exist!

What ballet flats are you buying for Autumn?
Piknik · Yesterday 14:19

Fly ones are really pretty. Not in my size though....

Ceramiq · Yesterday 14:53

The only ballet flat I will consider and my DD will consider is the Porselli with a 0.5 cm heel. We stock up every year in Italy on several colours each.

mumonthehill · Yesterday 15:06

I got a lovely pair of brown leather Ravel ones in tk maxx, they have a nice square toe and they are very soft. May not be fashion forward but I like them!

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 16:05

Piknik · Yesterday 14:16

Some good suggestions - thanks. Will go through these carefully.

This is what I really had in mind - but slingback. This weight/toe shape/sole. This is Jones Bootmaker and I would have sucked up the lack of slingback for this one but they don't have my size anywhere (7).

I might have to compromise. Sometimes, in this world of excess and retail overload, it is hard to believe that the thing in your head might not actually exist!

These in beige/neutral ...?? Decidedly orthopaedic though!

https://valmontimode.com/products/women-s-orthopedic-slingback-sandal-with-cushioned-sole

Women’s Orthopedic Slingback Sandal with Cushioned Sole

Comfort-focused design and everyday versatility define these supportive slingback sandals. Created to deliver reliable comfort without compromising on style, this thoughtfully designed pair features a secure slingback strap, cushioned sole, and breatha...

https://valmontimode.com/products/women-s-orthopedic-slingback-sandal-with-cushioned-sole