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I’m broke, what can take the place of Botox?

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 27/06/2026 21:07

I’ve been getting my 11s, forehead, and crows feet done for about 3/4 years, usually every 7-8 months.

But now I’m broke, and my crows feet in particular are beginning to bother me, and my left eyelid feels a bit droopy and uncomfortable.

Is there anything that remotely compares? I can’t use tret, i have eczema and my skin can’t take it.

Does anyone have any ideas? Please?

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 04/07/2026 03:02

Good diet, sleep and exercise. Don't smoke. Use sunscreen.

lovecotswoldsliving · 04/07/2026 07:16

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:25

Incorrect. The thread reads what can ‘take the place of it’. And as several posters have said, acceptance of aging can.

How old are you?

lovecotswoldsliving · 04/07/2026 08:00

DeftGoldHedgehog · 04/07/2026 03:02

Good diet, sleep and exercise. Don't smoke. Use sunscreen.

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Yes I do all that. I have very few lines, but gravity is now working against me!

Megifer · 04/07/2026 08:40

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:45

I’m not sure what question you have asked me that you are saying I have not answered? Are you asking why I haven’t walked into macdonalds to ask people why they are eating burgers? If this is the question I am happy to
answer it.

Eating burgers is not linked to the age old sexism that youth and beauty is. Youth and beauty, and the pressure to conform, and spend a lot of time, expense and mental anguish on, has historically been reserved u fairly, for women , and not men. Men are valued much more than women for their brains, aptitude and other accomplishments. Hence the prominence of older, middle aged men often being portrayed as still handsome, desirable and accomplished. The obsession with attributing high value to women
for their looks and youth is damaging many young women and girls, particularly as many are now growing up around the harmful influence of social media - where youth and beauty are pushed relentlessly (for money/profit) meaning that female teenage mental health is on the floor. Female teenage suicide has surged - research shows trying to live up to the pressure to look a certain way is a key factor in many cases.
There is a growing campaign by an organisation called safer screens and others that documents and explains the dangers behind this kind of pressure. I’d like to protect my own children from this. I don’t feel my children are exposed or impacted in the same way to burgers, or in the same disproportionate way. In short, burgers don’t worry me when it comes to women and girls self esteem and mental health.

Theres no question mark in my post, so I didnt ask you a question.

The op did however ask "Is there anything that remotely compares?" (Direct quote from the op.)

All youve done is rambled on about acceptance which is great for you, but has not answered the ops question despite you saying you have.

Eta - I've read the rest of your post now and can see you're extremely confused.

Rondayvu · 04/07/2026 09:23

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 03:00

What am I insecure about? And what am I projecting? I stand up for women’s’ rights and health. I’m not scared to do that even when being abused by many posters. There is zero information in my posts that suggests I am insecure or projecting. Most people attack aggressively when someone has raised a point that they are uncomfortable about. I think for some posters on here they feel the need to attack me because they are uncomfortable with a different viewpoint to theirs. The barrage of hate is quite telling.

DARVO in action.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 09:29

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:23

No not really because I see Botox everywhere and there is mass pressure to conform to it.

And I hear shite about Love Island everywhere but I just ignore it and continue on with my life, instead of haranguing people chatting about it.

Very odd that you can’t seem to grasp that nobody enjoys being hectored and lectured.

Oh, but you have given yourself a little medal in your head for fighting the good fight. It’s ever so pompous.

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 09:31

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 03:00

What am I insecure about? And what am I projecting? I stand up for women’s’ rights and health. I’m not scared to do that even when being abused by many posters. There is zero information in my posts that suggests I am insecure or projecting. Most people attack aggressively when someone has raised a point that they are uncomfortable about. I think for some posters on here they feel the need to attack me because they are uncomfortable with a different viewpoint to theirs. The barrage of hate is quite telling.

Honestly mate, it’s because your posts are annoying and have derailed what was a helpful thread.

Good work 👍👍

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Cherrytree86 · 04/07/2026 10:34

DeftGoldHedgehog · 04/07/2026 03:02

Good diet, sleep and exercise. Don't smoke. Use sunscreen.

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@DeftGoldHedgehog

yeah…all that is not going to to what Botox does. Plus most people who get Botox do all that stuff anyway. I do. So not good advice

Ezzee · 04/07/2026 10:48

Hellohelga · 28/06/2026 18:59

They were just examples. Cycling, rowing, join a band. IME girls with a passion for a hobby haven’t time or inclination to obsess over their appearance.

I'll say that to the girls in my gym tomorrow, that they are obsessed and need more hobbies, these women who have loads of hobbies already, work hard on their bodies, hold down professional jobs and have children, cook from scratch etc. We all have the same outlook in that we have treatment for ourselves because we want to!
Some training for marathons, iron woman etc.... we all have the same aesthetic doctor who is amazing!

Oriunda · 04/07/2026 10:49

Retinal (stronger than Retinol). I use a K-beauty cream (very sparingly) on alternate nights along wrinkle lines. Recommended to me by a Korean K-beauty industry insider. It’s €15 on Amazon. It’s not Botox, but there are a lot of great technologies out there now.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 10:53

Has it had a good effect @Oriunda

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corblimeygvnr · 04/07/2026 11:00

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 03:00

What am I insecure about? And what am I projecting? I stand up for women’s’ rights and health. I’m not scared to do that even when being abused by many posters. There is zero information in my posts that suggests I am insecure or projecting. Most people attack aggressively when someone has raised a point that they are uncomfortable about. I think for some posters on here they feel the need to attack me because they are uncomfortable with a different viewpoint to theirs. The barrage of hate is quite telling.

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Confused Little Girl GIF
FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 11:02

@corblimeygvnr🤣🤣🤣

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Oriunda · 04/07/2026 16:20

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 10:53

Has it had a good effect @Oriunda

Too early to tell. Only been a week or so.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:20

Rondayvu · 04/07/2026 09:23

DARVO in action.

I’m not denying my age 😊

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:21

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 11:02

@corblimeygvnr🤣🤣🤣

More mean girl behaviour I see.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 05/07/2026 10:28

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:20

I’m not denying my age 😊

Me neither. I happily tell people my age and that I get Botox 🤷‍♀️

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rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:35

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 04/07/2026 09:29

And I hear shite about Love Island everywhere but I just ignore it and continue on with my life, instead of haranguing people chatting about it.

Very odd that you can’t seem to grasp that nobody enjoys being hectored and lectured.

Oh, but you have given yourself a little medal in your head for fighting the good fight. It’s ever so pompous.

I don’t enjoy being lectured by society to improve my looks, engage in Botox, try to appear younger than I am. I also feel harangued by the constant, relentless marketing of Botox. It’s not possible to ignore. It’s everywhere and getting worse. Hence I want to fight against it.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:40

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 05/07/2026 10:28

Me neither. I happily tell people my age and that I get Botox 🤷‍♀️

You want to eradicate your lines/wrinkles. This is denying your age.

lovecotswoldsliving · 05/07/2026 12:39

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:35

I don’t enjoy being lectured by society to improve my looks, engage in Botox, try to appear younger than I am. I also feel harangued by the constant, relentless marketing of Botox. It’s not possible to ignore. It’s everywhere and getting worse. Hence I want to fight against it.

You will know plenty of people who have Botox.
You will like and admire those people and they won’t ever tell you they get it.
Just like many women shave their legs, dye their hair, whiten their teeth, get rid of varicose veins, get teeth braces, get their nails done, pierce their ears etc, have breast reductions, get tattoos.
They want to feel better about themselves.
You obviously don’t feel the need to do these things and there is nothing wrong with that either.
The great thing is we can do as we please as we live in a country which allows us to do so. It’s really not a big deal.

Rondayvu · 05/07/2026 15:15

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 05/07/2026 15:28

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:35

I don’t enjoy being lectured by society to improve my looks, engage in Botox, try to appear younger than I am. I also feel harangued by the constant, relentless marketing of Botox. It’s not possible to ignore. It’s everywhere and getting worse. Hence I want to fight against it.

You could have ignored this particular thread though, if you don’t enjoy it, but here YOU STILL ARE.

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Dragonscaledaisy · 05/07/2026 15:42

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 10:35

I don’t enjoy being lectured by society to improve my looks, engage in Botox, try to appear younger than I am. I also feel harangued by the constant, relentless marketing of Botox. It’s not possible to ignore. It’s everywhere and getting worse. Hence I want to fight against it.

No one's lecturing you and there's no pressure. You can't fight against other people's choices and preferences. Just get on with your own life.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 05/07/2026 18:28

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 05/07/2026 15:28

You could have ignored this particular thread though, if you don’t enjoy it, but here YOU STILL ARE.

I think it’s important to be the voice for the other side. I was talking about the constant pressure from social media, television, billboard advertising, magazines, newspapers, to change looks and try to look younger.

For example (Health Correspondent BBC News), how do you feel about the below?

“Young people are turning to cosmetic procedures such as botox and dermal fillers as a result of social media pressure, according to a report.
A study by the Nuffield Council on Bioethics says government must protect people from an unregulated industry.
The report also condemns makeover apps and online plastic surgery games aimed at children as young as nine.
The authors fear such apps are contributing to growing anxieties around body image.
Much of the cosmetic procedures industry is unregulated so reliable data on its size is hard to come by.
In 2015 one market research company estimated the UK market could be worth as much as £3.6bn.
But there is little doubt it has grown significantly over the past decade.
Focus on body image
The report identifies several factors that are encouraging young people in particular to focus on body image.
These include increasing levels of anxiety around appearance, the rise of social media where photos can receive positive or negative ratings and the popularity of celebrity culture, complete with airbrushed images and apparently perfect lifestyles.

Prof Jeanette Edwards says the panel was shocked to discover plastic surgery apps aimed at young girls
Prof Jeanette Edwards, from the University of Manchester, who chaired the council's inquiry into ethical issues surrounding cosmetic procedures, said some of the evidence around games aimed at younger children had surprised the panel.
"We've been shocked by some of the evidence we've seen, including make-over apps and cosmetic surgery 'games' that target girls as young as nine.
"There is a daily bombardment from advertising and through social media channels like Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat that relentlessly promote unrealistic and often discriminatory messages on how people, especially girls and women, 'should' look."