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I’m broke, what can take the place of Botox?

394 replies

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 27/06/2026 21:07

I’ve been getting my 11s, forehead, and crows feet done for about 3/4 years, usually every 7-8 months.

But now I’m broke, and my crows feet in particular are beginning to bother me, and my left eyelid feels a bit droopy and uncomfortable.

Is there anything that remotely compares? I can’t use tret, i have eczema and my skin can’t take it.

Does anyone have any ideas? Please?

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 30/06/2026 13:29

BrentfordForever · 30/06/2026 13:15

@FloodlightsOnTheSquare here is an AI summary for you 😍

Topical products

  • Nip + Fab Peptide Fix Oil — recommended by a poster whose friend got compliments and even cancelled her Botox after using it.
  • The Ordinary's Argireline ("Botox in a bottle") — said to work well on dynamic lines and gentle enough for the eye socket; one poster noticed her droopy eye looked less noticeable after about a month.
  • The Ordinary's Volufiline (92% + PAL-Isoleucine 1% Plumping Serum) — a plumping serum recommended with a direct Boots link.
  • Medik8 Vitamin C (C-Tetra) — non-irritating, oil-based and hydrating; good as a standalone step under SPF for normal skin.
  • Medik8 Advanced Peptides — claims to soften expression lines; a poster had just ordered it to try.
  • Frownies (or generic silicone scar tape) — a cheap option applied overnight to discourage frown lines; flagged repeatedly as the best budget pick.
  • VT reedle
Devices
  • Foreo Bear (or similar microcurrent device)

Oh you are FABULOUS ⭐️⭐️⭐️

Ive yet to figure out what a bear might do to my face, but I will figure it out 😁

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Toveylove · 30/06/2026 13:33

Megifer · 30/06/2026 13:17

Youre forgiven as tbh Id forgot I liked the sound of that Reedle stuff 😍

Reedle stuff? Is that the stuff with spicules? Do you ever watch DR Dray? I saw her saying the spicules can embed in the dermal layers potentially for years and may cause issues further down the line.. she advises against spicules. FYI.
dermarolling is safer.

Rondayvu · 30/06/2026 13:34

@Honeyhonay is that in relation to the old advert years ago 'Not happy Jan'? Christ that brings me back!

corblimeygvnr · 30/06/2026 13:43

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 30/06/2026 13:05

Mumsnet is an open forum for debate and you don’t own it. You don’t get to police who uses it. How controlling of you. It’s clever that you use deliberately emotive verbs such as ‘waded in’ to try to portray be in a negative way. I can engage in any way I choose as long as I adhere to the rules of the forum - which I do.

Why don't you start a thread on that then as opposed to derailing one?

corblimeygvnr · 30/06/2026 13:44

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 30/06/2026 13:02

Having an opposing viewpoint to you has zero link to my level of happiness. What a bizarre thing to conclude.

It's more to do with the language you use and your tone and attitude.

Petrine · 01/07/2026 12:41

@rapid3874greekyoghurt 'It’s been a constant stream of attributing hateful and negative things to aging. And this is from women themselves. Women telling other women that aging skin is disgusting and undesirable. So we’ve no chance. Crack on with your Botox ladies.'

I posted to say that at my age (71) neither myself or those I know had ever experienced the negativity that you keep suggesting is going on. You obviously weren't satisfied to know this because you then posted a reply with a link to an article trying to demonstrate that older women are definitely going to be mocked, marginalised and ignored.

You're the one who's determined to attribute aging as negative.

Toveylove · 01/07/2026 13:33

The foreo bear is quite a good microcurrent device, and it can, if used daily, give you a forehead lift, and soften 11 lines. A bit! Not a lot!

BrentfordForever · 01/07/2026 18:37

Toveylove · 30/06/2026 13:33

Reedle stuff? Is that the stuff with spicules? Do you ever watch DR Dray? I saw her saying the spicules can embed in the dermal layers potentially for years and may cause issues further down the line.. she advises against spicules. FYI.
dermarolling is safer.

Seriously??

I never heard of it before, someone suggested here… thanks for this will go google !!!

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 02/07/2026 11:08

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

And such a shame that fathers pass this on to their sons... But no, let's blame the OP

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 02/07/2026 11:12

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 02/07/2026 12:08

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 02/07/2026 11:08

And such a shame that fathers pass this on to their sons... But no, let's blame the OP

Thanks @MyrtlethePurpleTurtlebut don’t worry about me, I literally don’t care 🤣

I care more about my droopy eyelid!

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rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 17:59

Petrine · 01/07/2026 12:41

@rapid3874greekyoghurt 'It’s been a constant stream of attributing hateful and negative things to aging. And this is from women themselves. Women telling other women that aging skin is disgusting and undesirable. So we’ve no chance. Crack on with your Botox ladies.'

I posted to say that at my age (71) neither myself or those I know had ever experienced the negativity that you keep suggesting is going on. You obviously weren't satisfied to know this because you then posted a reply with a link to an article trying to demonstrate that older women are definitely going to be mocked, marginalised and ignored.

You're the one who's determined to attribute aging as negative.

This thread is literally teeming with what is wrong with looking old 😂 😂

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:03

corblimeygvnr · 30/06/2026 13:44

It's more to do with the language you use and your tone and attitude.

Ah you mean I’m not scared of the bullies on this thread and I’m confident and assertive?

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:05

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I like my wrinkled face. Deliberately putting an adjective into brackets is a common literacy tactic to frame the subject in an offensive manner.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:06

corblimeygvnr · 30/06/2026 13:43

Why don't you start a thread on that then as opposed to derailing one?

I have a right to answer the question from the OP. Just like you do.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:08

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 30/06/2026 13:28

Welllll yes and no. I’d say your posts could be considered derailing, perhaps?

But my main point of view I suppose is that yes, obviously it’s an open forum, but I would be embarrassed for myself if I waded into, say, a thread about Love Island, and started telling everyone they were wrong for watching it.

I would just scroll past 🤷‍♀️

What is wrong with Love Island?

I am not embarrassed at all. 🤷‍♀️

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:11

Nanda66 · 30/06/2026 13:27

Of course it’s important to be able to have reasoned debate. But you are debating a different subject. The OP has asked for alternatives to Botox, you are debating the rights and wrongs of Botox, and that isn’t the debate that either the OP or others wish to engage in.

Am I though? An alternative to Botox, especially when the thread title focussing on the high cost of it, is accepting your aging self. As pointed out by others too.

Megifer · 03/07/2026 18:50

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:11

Am I though? An alternative to Botox, especially when the thread title focussing on the high cost of it, is accepting your aging self. As pointed out by others too.

Op was asking what compares to botox.

Embracing her face as is, will of course not be a comparison to botox.

So you havent answered the question. You have done the equivalent of wandering into a McDonalds and hounding everyone about why they eat burgers.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 03/07/2026 18:51

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:08

What is wrong with Love Island?

I am not embarrassed at all. 🤷‍♀️

I didn’t say there was anything wrong with it. I’ve never seen it. Why is why I wouldn’t involve myself in a conversation about it.

See what I mean?

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Rondayvu · 03/07/2026 19:56

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 03/07/2026 18:08

What is wrong with Love Island?

I am not embarrassed at all. 🤷‍♀️

Yeah we can tell by your ridiculous posts you are not embarrassed. Ever. About anything. Never known anyone as intent on derailing a thread in my life ever before. Get help for your deep insecurity. Your projection is painful to witness.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:22

Rondayvu · 03/07/2026 19:56

Yeah we can tell by your ridiculous posts you are not embarrassed. Ever. About anything. Never known anyone as intent on derailing a thread in my life ever before. Get help for your deep insecurity. Your projection is painful to witness.

Thank you for the continued insults.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:23

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 03/07/2026 18:51

I didn’t say there was anything wrong with it. I’ve never seen it. Why is why I wouldn’t involve myself in a conversation about it.

See what I mean?

No not really because I see Botox everywhere and there is mass pressure to conform to it.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:25

Megifer · 03/07/2026 18:50

Op was asking what compares to botox.

Embracing her face as is, will of course not be a comparison to botox.

So you havent answered the question. You have done the equivalent of wandering into a McDonalds and hounding everyone about why they eat burgers.

Incorrect. The thread reads what can ‘take the place of it’. And as several posters have said, acceptance of aging can.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 02:45

Megifer · 03/07/2026 18:50

Op was asking what compares to botox.

Embracing her face as is, will of course not be a comparison to botox.

So you havent answered the question. You have done the equivalent of wandering into a McDonalds and hounding everyone about why they eat burgers.

I’m not sure what question you have asked me that you are saying I have not answered? Are you asking why I haven’t walked into macdonalds to ask people why they are eating burgers? If this is the question I am happy to
answer it.

Eating burgers is not linked to the age old sexism that youth and beauty is. Youth and beauty, and the pressure to conform, and spend a lot of time, expense and mental anguish on, has historically been reserved u fairly, for women , and not men. Men are valued much more than women for their brains, aptitude and other accomplishments. Hence the prominence of older, middle aged men often being portrayed as still handsome, desirable and accomplished. The obsession with attributing high value to women
for their looks and youth is damaging many young women and girls, particularly as many are now growing up around the harmful influence of social media - where youth and beauty are pushed relentlessly (for money/profit) meaning that female teenage mental health is on the floor. Female teenage suicide has surged - research shows trying to live up to the pressure to look a certain way is a key factor in many cases.
There is a growing campaign by an organisation called safer screens and others that documents and explains the dangers behind this kind of pressure. I’d like to protect my own children from this. I don’t feel my children are exposed or impacted in the same way to burgers, or in the same disproportionate way. In short, burgers don’t worry me when it comes to women and girls self esteem and mental health.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 04/07/2026 03:00

Rondayvu · 03/07/2026 19:56

Yeah we can tell by your ridiculous posts you are not embarrassed. Ever. About anything. Never known anyone as intent on derailing a thread in my life ever before. Get help for your deep insecurity. Your projection is painful to witness.

What am I insecure about? And what am I projecting? I stand up for women’s’ rights and health. I’m not scared to do that even when being abused by many posters. There is zero information in my posts that suggests I am insecure or projecting. Most people attack aggressively when someone has raised a point that they are uncomfortable about. I think for some posters on here they feel the need to attack me because they are uncomfortable with a different viewpoint to theirs. The barrage of hate is quite telling.