MOB Outfit

[princesspadam]

So I think I’ve found the one.
i wanted a floor length gown, it needs taking up
not normally my colour but liked it.

not loving the fascinator so will choose something else

happy to take thoughts/feedback as I am so bad at choosing

It suits you but not really MOB in my opinion.

fascinators are a no, wear a proper big statement hat.

With a train? It's gorgeous but a bit elaborate for MOB.

But I don’t want to look like a MOB, it’s not so much a train as a flowy bit

It’s fine if that’s the dress code for the wedding.

I would want people in their very best daywear for mine.

It’s formal wear, dd wants me in a floor length gown
the men are in black tie

Black tie wedding? Otherwise a hard no. MoG previously, MoB to be.

I love it !!!!
U look stunning in it ❣️ 😍 ❣️

You look gorgeous! Avoid the fascinator.

Great choice for a black tie wedding. The colour and asymmetric neckline really suit you.

As the dress code is black tie, I’d avoid fascinators and the like and just accessorise with a good evening clutch and sparkly sandals.

Plenty of gowns that would suit you and be better suited to the occasion:

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/naeem-khan/dresses/gowns/embroidered-sequined-stretch-tulle-gown/46376663163121257

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/badgley-mischka/dresses/gowns/belted-floral-appliqued-chiffon-gown/46376663163149872

https://rixolondon.com/products/ordinia-dress-ava-devore-blue

https://www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/shop/product/rixo/clothing/maxi-dresses/ordinia-polka-dot-crepon-trimmed-silk-satin-midi-dress/46376663163024724

https://www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/shop/product/victoria-beckham/clothing/midi-dresses/asymmetric-draped-gathered-satin-crepe-dress/46376663163043677

https://www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/shop/product/johanna-ortiz/clothing/maxi-dresses/elegant-freedom-one-shoulder-printed-silk-georgette-maxi-dress/46376663163037248

I think you look beautiful. However, wondering if this is an American trend coming over here? They tend to have many weddings where the MOB is in a long gown, often with a train. I've seen it creeping in here now & again & I don't know if I like it. It's like the MOB needs to be very glamorous & it almost seems in competition with the bride?

Edited to say: NOT that I'm saying that's what your intention is, OP.

You look stunning!

Its a gorgeous dress and you look amazing and if your DD wants you in a floor length gown then its perfect.

My DD is getting married next year and has also expressed that she would love me to be in a floor length gown, like her bridesmaids, as I am one of her wedding party.

As long as your DD is fine with a long gown then go for it. 🙂

Yes definitely an American thing “creeping” over to England, where fascinators are still worn and fashion is often an afterthought. 😆

Have to disagree, @Tortephant. At least three of your suggestions are just nice long dresses, rather than distinctively formal evening wear. And two would be far too heavy and warm if it’s a summer wedding.

The OP’s daughter’s dress code wouldn’t be my choice, but the OP looks perfectly fine in her dress and it fits the context.

I said it suited her. It’s just not appropriate for the occasion, and a bit dated

Lovely formal gown, though the fascinator lets it down and definitely detracts from it.

I love fascinators but a really modern one or proper hat would look better

These float your boat ?

It looks gorgeous on you. Love the colour too. Imho far too many women wear something they consider a MoB outfit that doesn't do them any justice.

You look amazing.

A classic mother of the bride outfit can be quite old fashioned for a younger MOB.

You've got a great figure and this is showing it off! You don't want to be frumpy because that us what is 'normal'

If your daughter likes it then go for it!

I think OPs choice is far superior to any of these - really not black tie except the Jane McDonald dreadful dated and aging sequinned number.

I am impressed with your arms OP! I have arm envy!

You look stunning.

Some of the suggestions are awful and much more dressed down.

Definitely no fascinator though.

Stunning for MOB at a black tie wedding. I really suits you and the colour is strong and will be great for the photos - I'd suggest hiring a really spectacular hat/headpiece rather than buying

Totally not dated it's very on trend

It's a beautiful dress, great cut, shows off your figure really well, and is age and event appropriate.

I think it's a great choice.

Are 'black tie ' weddings in the evening? Dinner suits and long dresses are surely for evening parties?
Very formal daytime weddings are tailcoats and very smart day dresses. Look at ' 4 weddings and a funeral'.