Interesting that it was even worse with the professionals. What happened? We keep thinking ot would be so much easier, but it would cost a fortune for what we want.
I did an Ikea DIY one years ago with exH which wasn't too bad, but we got someone in to help with finishing things off. DH had the professionals in for one with his exW and said it was all in and out in a week.
We are prepared for it to take months. We've ordered plywood units but they are made to our exact spec, which we are still finalising and we won't get them until mid December. And that's without considering worktops, which we will organise afterwards.
So we are already anticipating Christmas lunch will be a combination of the air fryer, our little combi microwave/oven/grill and the camping double induction hob, which is how we're managing now.
DS1 is going to Hong Kong for Christmas with a friend so it will only be DH, DS2 and me. We'll manage. It's OK at the moment as both DS are at uni but will be more complicated when they are back in the Christmas holidays I imagine.
We've bought a cheap sink with worktop on a stand from Ikea which isn't a bad temporary solution. And the top of the washing machine and dishwasher are functioning as temporary worktops, along with the kitchen table.
The electrician should be coming next week to sort out oven/hob electrics so we can put in an induction hob.
Then we'll need to find someone who can patch up all the plasterboard holes where we pulled tiles off and skim it. At least we can paint after that.
We're going to have screw in glass upstands/splashbacks this time, I'm never having tiles grouted to plasterboard again, it pulls half the wall off when removing them.
We're hoping to make it a bit more modular this time so parts could be replaced if necessary without having to remove half the installation. I bought the house as a new build 14 years ago and they had literally stuck the kitchen together in many places.