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How old and fat is too old and fat for this dress at a very informal summer wedding in a field?

161 replies

CurlewKate · 09/06/2024 09:07

www.nobodyschild.com/products/green-broderie-starlight-midi-dress

OP posts:
GinForBreakfast · 09/06/2024 12:34

That is a lovely dress and I think would suit lots of different shapes.

Galliano · 09/06/2024 12:35

i think body shape will make this dress and it looks very flattering for a pear or hour glass shape

would love to know what you do for bag and shoes

GingerbicciesPlease · 09/06/2024 12:36

How old are you?

MN can be very ageist where anyone over 40 is considered old.

PadstowGirl · 09/06/2024 12:44

My friend has this dress, she is 74 and size 14.

RosesAndHellebores · 09/06/2024 12:52

CurlewKate · 09/06/2024 12:24

I think it will be too long-but I have time to have it taken up professionally.

I'm 5'6" and it's fine lengthwise.

BusterGonad · 09/06/2024 12:54

I absolutely love that shade of green. 💚

Disturbia81 · 09/06/2024 13:04

GingerbicciesPlease · 09/06/2024 12:36

How old are you?

MN can be very ageist where anyone over 40 is considered old.

I thought most people here were over 40.

Toooldforthis36 · 09/06/2024 14:37

Gorgeous dress - do it!

CharlotteBog · 09/06/2024 16:03

I think it's lovely. I wonder how it fits women with small boobs.

MsJacksonIfYoureNasty · 09/06/2024 16:32

This is similar OP and you can buy in petite length if the one you have ordered is too long

https://www.boden.co.uk/en-gb/elsa-crinkle-midi-tea-dress-flame-scarlet-tulip-garden/sty-d0932-mul?cat=C1_S2_G4

LePetitMarseillias · 09/06/2024 16:40

Try this one OP!
They're always cut to be really flattering:

scampanddude.com/products/scamp-and-dude-midi-dress-green-broderie-puff-sleeve

Frostandfrogs · 09/06/2024 17:06

I really like it!

EatCrow · 09/06/2024 17:10

TequilaSunsets · 09/06/2024 09:17

I was expecting a crotch high slit or something! This is a very demure dress and very suitable for a wedding.

😁 It really is a personal thing OP. Five people may think you look great (or anyone looks great) in it and one person may think ‘nope, fat and old’.

So, where does that leave anyone’s choice?

mumofthemonsters808 · 09/06/2024 17:17

I’ve seen this dress and it’s gorgeous, it’s suitable for any age.Regarding body shape I think it would suit all sizes, if it’s too revealing put a Cami top under it.Order it and see what you think, I bet you really like it.

ThisBlueCrab · 09/06/2024 17:38

CurlewKate · 09/06/2024 09:48

Thank you! I was just worried it might be a little bit "girly". Sadly, it's academic now because while I've spent 24 hours dithering, the bigger sizes have sold out in all colours i I like! Back to the drawing board.

Have you looked on the m&s website as they stock nobody's child

Whatineed · 09/06/2024 17:41

What a wonderful colourfilled photo!

TrtseHkpr · 09/06/2024 17:47

8792, years or stone. Seriously, if it fits, and you love it, then wear it. Have a brilliant time at the wedding :)

Motherof2Dragons · 09/06/2024 18:03

I bought this in the sky blue and couldn’t believe how dreadful I looked. I was shocked, as I’d expected it to be super flattering but it showed far too much squashed boob for my liking! And the flare made my hips look 3 times wider than they actually are. Hopefully it will look better on you! Agree it seems to size small.

Tusue · 09/06/2024 18:07

I have this dress in a size 14 and I’m a busty 61 year old, I love it,it’s super comfy and cool and I say buy it and wear it with confidence , nothing looks as good as a lady with a bloody big smile on her face 😉

WingingItSince1973 · 09/06/2024 18:25

It's a beautiful dress. If it fits well and suits you then any age and shape x

Lilacdew · 09/06/2024 18:27

mnahmnah · 09/06/2024 09:09

Anyone at any age! Not sure if you have bought from them before, but I would size up. They size smaller especially on the bust area!

Weird. I'd say the opposite. I have a few of their dresses and love this shape. But in size 12 there is acres of spare fabric for my DD boobs. Maybe they have altered the proportions recently. My NC dresses are all at least 3 years old.

ManilowBarry · 09/06/2024 18:29

I'd wear that but I'm tall and slenderZ I can't imagine shirt and fat wearing that style. You'd look like a wench!

motherofawhirlwind · 09/06/2024 18:32

app.simplybe.co.uk/shop/SC135/product/details/show.action

yumyumyumy · 09/06/2024 18:34

5000 and 4 tonnes. Wear what you like!