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Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅

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Lwrenn · 15/05/2024 18:56

So, for those of us who are chunky yet funky, what's the plan ladies?

Shall we give no fucks and wear nice comfy summery clothes or do we worry about keeping every inch of us covered head to toe in black until we sweat so hard we melt? What's the plan?

Currently a size 20/22 myself, unlikely to get down to a magical size 14 by July so I'm looking at the nice comfy looking linen pants, few maxi dresses, shorts because I'm a wee chubby pale rebel and to really go wild a jumpsuit or two.

Simply be has some lovely things at the moment including shoes, asos curve is looking alright and vinted is my best pal.

I'm 35 for a few more months and don't want to have another summer in my 30s hating my body, so this year I'm going to embrace it. Anyone with me?

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MooBaggage · 25/06/2024 10:24

Boiling hot on holiday here today, so I'm going all out on the colour 😁 Just had to post this here - my children will probably roll their eyes, but the trousers and top are both lovely light cotton - and I'm going to say it's a deliberate colour clash...!

Am experimenting with one side of the top tucked in a bit, as it's just a bit too long so am hoping the side tuck at least pretends to give me some shape...

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Dollyparot200 · 25/06/2024 10:39

@MooBaggage Love this outfit

Weedkillerworks · 25/06/2024 13:33

I’m struggling to get this thread to load properly so I hope this post gets through ok.

Someone asked upthread about active tshirts that are long, cotton-feel and vaguely flattering? This one from Next in navy does the job for me (5’8”, booby size 20): https://www.next.co.uk/g73151s6/D58789#D58789

Have just taken delivery of my first ever Whistles order - two oversized denim jackets in the sale - and I don’t know which one to keep…
Pale blue
https://www.whistles.com/product/tilly-oversized-denim-jacket-38387.html#suggestion=true

Mid-dark blue
https://www.whistles.com/product/flare-sleeve-denim-jacket-38085.html#q=Denim%20jacket&is=false&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=flare-sleeve-denim-jacket-38085&pos=1

Pale Denim Tilly Oversized Denim Jacket | WHISTLES | Whistles UK |

Buy Pale Denim Tilly Oversized Denim Jacket | WHISTLES whistles.com. Our Tilly Oversized Denim Jacket is the ultimate layer you want to add over all your casual daily looks.

https://www.whistles.com/product/tilly-oversized-denim-jacket-38387.html#suggestion=true

Soccermumamir · 25/06/2024 17:14

MooBaggage · 25/06/2024 10:24

Boiling hot on holiday here today, so I'm going all out on the colour 😁 Just had to post this here - my children will probably roll their eyes, but the trousers and top are both lovely light cotton - and I'm going to say it's a deliberate colour clash...!

Am experimenting with one side of the top tucked in a bit, as it's just a bit too long so am hoping the side tuck at least pretends to give me some shape...

Ooh love the colours 🙂

Soccermumamir · 25/06/2024 17:16

Completed our charity walk yesterday. It was so hot 🥵 Had my gym gear on though so was okay.

I've enjoyed the cooler weather today 🙂 Hoping it stays cooler now lol 😆

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 25/06/2024 20:43

@MooBaggage I love the colours! So bright 😍. You look fantastic.

@Weedkillerworks hmmm that's a doozy. Which feels and looks better?? Both are really nice. It's the kind of thing you will keep for years.

Dear thread of sanity, forgive me for i have sinned and bought two more vinted Hellbunny bargain dresses 😬

I'm mega stressed out at an appointment tomorrow and just well, you know.

Does everyone know how to search well on vinted?

Someone taught this to me and it's a game changer.

Do your search by clicking through the menu - click the search icon, then click through women /clothing/dresses/ then type in the brand you like if you have one. Mine says "Hellbunny 16 18 xxl". Click search.

Then, click on the search bar again and you will see your search criteria in the drop down. Theres a little box to the right you click and it saves your search. This means in future you can easily find the search by dropping down into that box.

After searching, At the top right, Under "Sort by", I've my Search set to "newest first", but you can change that and select cheapest first. It's a great way to find complete bargains (like hellbunny dresses for under 10quid or whatever your brand is!!)

I find people seem to label sizes incorrectly so I'll only buy if I can see the label, or if the seller confirms the size after I message to check.

MadameMassiveSalad · 25/06/2024 21:36

Someone asked upthread about active tshirts that are long, cotton-feel and vaguely flattering? This one from Next in navy does the job for me (5’8”, booby size 20): www.next.co.uk/g73151s6/D58789#D58789

Thanks weed! 🙌🙌🙌

Weedkillerworks · 25/06/2024 21:40

@TruthThatsHardAsSteel I think the pale blue. But I only tried them on quickly in between meetings - haven’t even looked in the mirror yet. But I love the quirkiness of the mid-blue. Agonising decision to make!

Am so glad I had my colours done a few years ago. It’s not foolproof but I look so much better in colours that suit me and it makes shopping quicker and marginally less painful.

MooBaggage · 26/06/2024 16:40

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 25/06/2024 20:43

@MooBaggage I love the colours! So bright 😍. You look fantastic.

@Weedkillerworks hmmm that's a doozy. Which feels and looks better?? Both are really nice. It's the kind of thing you will keep for years.

Dear thread of sanity, forgive me for i have sinned and bought two more vinted Hellbunny bargain dresses 😬

I'm mega stressed out at an appointment tomorrow and just well, you know.

Does everyone know how to search well on vinted?

Someone taught this to me and it's a game changer.

Do your search by clicking through the menu - click the search icon, then click through women /clothing/dresses/ then type in the brand you like if you have one. Mine says "Hellbunny 16 18 xxl". Click search.

Then, click on the search bar again and you will see your search criteria in the drop down. Theres a little box to the right you click and it saves your search. This means in future you can easily find the search by dropping down into that box.

After searching, At the top right, Under "Sort by", I've my Search set to "newest first", but you can change that and select cheapest first. It's a great way to find complete bargains (like hellbunny dresses for under 10quid or whatever your brand is!!)

I find people seem to label sizes incorrectly so I'll only buy if I can see the label, or if the seller confirms the size after I message to check.

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Thanks! My 22 year old son told me to steer clear of any bulls.... #cheekyfucker 🙄😁

It's misty here today and not as warm, so I'm in blue colours today - no bulls to be enraged, nor sons to be horrified!

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 27/06/2024 17:01

MooBaggage · 26/06/2024 16:40

Thanks! My 22 year old son told me to steer clear of any bulls.... #cheekyfucker 🙄😁

It's misty here today and not as warm, so I'm in blue colours today - no bulls to be enraged, nor sons to be horrified!

Cheeky shitebag 😂

My 20L combats came and I wore them yesterday with the trainers in the middle pic, the t shirt and my cat hoody. Much prefer the fit of these. Love.

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
ChishiyaBat · 27/06/2024 19:29

@TruthThatsHardAsSteel loving that outfit👌🏻

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 27/06/2024 19:42

ChishiyaBat · 27/06/2024 19:29

@TruthThatsHardAsSteel loving that outfit👌🏻

Ohhh a new vinted dress arrived and I love it. I think it needs layers - waistcoat (I've 2), maybe a t shirt 🤔.

Thanks so much! 🤩 I had plaits to match! Highly recommend these combats. All colours go up to size 26

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
ChishiyaBat · 27/06/2024 20:14

I wish I could wear combats @TruthThatsHardAsSteel , but I am only 4foot10 so trousers just drag 10miles behind me, I have to wear cuffed ones for work that make me look like a small child😂.

Dollyparot200 · 27/06/2024 22:21

@TruthThatsHardAsSteel Love this

BeretRaspberry · 28/06/2024 18:41

Hi you gorgeous lot! I need to catch up on the last couple of pages as haven’t been around for a while. Just thought I’d post this. It’s Yours but I got it through Next. They have some other colours and patterns. It’s so lovely on and so light and comfy. I’ve ordered a size down as well so when I’ve decided which I prefer, I’ll post a picture.

I wore my Manners dress last weekend and got a few compliments!

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
TragicMuse · 28/06/2024 21:19

I'm planning to sew this dress. I think it will be lovely in the fabric I've got, an embroidered linen.

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:43

One of my festival outfits, leggings from Llama leggings and T shirt from George at Asda

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:44

Crochet outfit, ended up being too hot to wear it

Fat girl summer - let's slay 💅
ChishiyaBat · 28/06/2024 21:53

Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:44

Crochet outfit, ended up being too hot to wear it

That is stunning ❤️

mommatoone · 28/06/2024 22:34

Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:44

Crochet outfit, ended up being too hot to wear it

This is beautiful. Really suits your shape as well. Hopefully you will get chance to wear it!

Evenstar · 28/06/2024 22:56

Sorry forgot to add that crochet outfit was EBay for the crochet dress and Vinted for the under dress

Dollyparot200 · 28/06/2024 23:10

Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:44

Crochet outfit, ended up being too hot to wear it

This is beautiful and looks amazing on you

mixedpeel · 29/06/2024 09:30

Evenstar · 28/06/2024 21:44

Crochet outfit, ended up being too hot to wear it

Agree with everyone else, this is stunning! Hope the slightly cooler temps now mean you can wear it loads. You look incredible in it.

Weedkillerworks · 29/06/2024 12:44

Hello everyone,

Popping back with some more recommendations from this week’s purchases. You lot are getting me spending (but these are much cheaper than the Whistles denim jacket 😁). Note: none of these have been washed yet so the recommendation is for fit only.

Navy culottes - not stunning quality but hang well and nice for summer hols.

https://www.roman.co.uk/linen-blend-stretch-waist-culottes-18044129
Code payday for 15% off

Blue and white floaty blouse - H&M (I have big boobs and chunky arms and this copes with both)
https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1236559002.html

Good basic T-shirt - fitted but not tight. Size up for bagginess and length if wished.
https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.0963662127.html

Denim Linen Blend Stretch Waist Culottes | Roman UK

Shop for Denim Linen Blend Stretch Waist Culottes at Roman.co.uk. Part of our Beach Clothes collection.

https://www.roman.co.uk/linen-blend-stretch-waist-culottes-18044129

Lwrenn · 29/06/2024 21:11

Hi girls! Sorry I've not replied to anything my phone finally after months of tantrums refused to turn on for a few days! I hope you are all well and keep looking gorgeous and post your beautiful pics x

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