My brother is getting married soon. My soon to be SIL has always been a bit distant from us and doesn't really want to get involved in any family things, which we're fine with, not everyone is the same.
They're getting married soon and she's not quite a bridezilla, but he's VERY particular about every detail. Again, fine. It's her wedding (and my brother's).
She seems particularly distant to my mum, who tries her hardest with her but she just doesn't respond. My mother is a lovely woman, the kindest soul and I know it breaks her that my SIL won't even try with her, but I think my poor soon to be SIL is so painfully shy and awkward, she's just chosen to not engage with us (they've been together 10 years).
Again, all fine. We know the deal.
My mum just showed me the dress she's planning to wear to their wedding and I was a bit shocked. I thought it was common knowledge that you NEVER wear white to a wedding. I don't think it's on purpose, but I don't think my mum has picked an appropriate dress (especially given the cold relationship with SIL!).
What do you think? Is this dress too white? I can't help but think it's particularly important given how frosty things are with the bride!
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Is this dress appropriate for a wedding?
hippygirllucky · 13/03/2023 08:45
Silverstreaks · 19/03/2023 08:46
What a shame. It's a pretty summer dress, looks fresh and stylish.
Is she expecting your mother to be trussed up in a thick dress, coat and hat combo?
JenniferBarkley · 19/03/2023 10:09
Why did SIL hit the roof?
Is it the bridal thing or the style of the dress? Where I'm from the mothers of the bride and groom dress much more formally than that, and that dress may be seen as not making an effort.
Not that that excuses SIL of course.
Hope you have plenty of wine in OP, or your indulgence of choice, sounds like you're going to need it.
Travelationjubilation · 19/03/2023 11:00
Why would that not be making an effort, it’s elegant and classy.
JenniferBarkley · 19/03/2023 10:09
Why did SIL hit the roof?
Is it the bridal thing or the style of the dress? Where I'm from the mothers of the bride and groom dress much more formally than that, and that dress may be seen as not making an effort.
Not that that excuses SIL of course.
Hope you have plenty of wine in OP, or your indulgence of choice, sounds like you're going to need it.
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