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Help me find something nice please

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 18:38

Going out to a 'very nice' restaurant in a few weeks. People will be dressed up, I think. Not London.

So - I'm looking possibly for one of the following:

  • a dress / short but not clingy / must have sleeves
  • or - I've got a black satin midi skirt that I love but haven't really got a top to go with it / would need sleeves, lowish neck or possibly a wrap, relatively fitted, not very long in length and not needing to be tucked in, maybe a bit of ruching or something

or - a brilliant pair of flattering 'going out' jeans (I have no smart jeans) and a top to go with them

I suit black or dark colours like deep red or dark green / not averse to a bit of animal print or a subtle pattern.

I don't 'do' scratchy polyester. I'm short and a curvy 14.

Any ideas, please?

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boboshmobo · 07/01/2023 18:39

I wear a soft polo neck jumper with my satin skirt and boots .. would that work?

PrinceHaz · 07/01/2023 18:43

This?
www.thewhitecompany.com/uk/Cutwork-Dress/p/A03549

PrinceHaz · 07/01/2023 18:54

Various from Bombshell
www.bombshellhq.com/collections/winter-sale

PrinceHaz · 07/01/2023 18:56

www.reiss.com/style/st180626/u75603

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:32

boboshmobo · 07/01/2023 18:39

I wear a soft polo neck jumper with my satin skirt and boots .. would that work?

That's what I usually wear with mine, but I think it will be too warm.

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LadyOfTheCanyon · 07/01/2023 19:34

Being practical, will you get more wear out of the jeans rather than a ' going out' dress?

<mum face>

Cuppasoupmonster · 07/01/2023 19:35

Lipsy has some really nice tops that fit the brief

www.next.co.uk/style/ls338890/q30017#q30017

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:36

Thanks for these.

WC one is too long and I won't buy from them because they fund the Tory party. so even if it was perfect I couldn't have it!

The Jigsaw plum one is beautiful but too high necked/fitted for what I fancy.

I don't like the shoulder ruffles on the Whistles one.

Reiss one is too long.

Not really a fan of Bombshell, sorry.

If a dress, I definitely want short that I can wear with black tights and boots.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:37

LadyOfTheCanyon · 07/01/2023 19:34

Being practical, will you get more wear out of the jeans rather than a ' going out' dress?

<mum face>

Yes - probably! And out of a nice top to wear with my skirt too.

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SuperPug · 07/01/2023 19:42

There’s also some very nice tops from Vince on Brand Alley. Excellent quality, cheaper than Net a Porter

HoneyDragon · 07/01/2023 19:44

I tried this on to go with a midi pencil skirt and it was much more flattering than it looks on the picture
www.tedbaker.com/uk/p/Womens/Clothing/Tops/LAZARE-D-Ring-Detail-Wrap-Top-Black/263742-BLACK

LadyOfTheCanyon · 07/01/2023 19:45

Levi's 311 are good for short people ( ask me how I know Grin) if you want a skinny silhouette.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:46

The Nancy Macs are beautiful, but not what I'm after. I want short if a dress. Would be gorgeous for a winter wedding.

I don't like this top but the shape and neckline would work well on me

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AinmÁlainn · 07/01/2023 19:46

Would either of these Paisie tops work? Other colours available for both if you search on Wolf and Badger.

www.wolfandbadger.com/eu/lille-knitted-wrap-top-in-royal-blue/

www.wolfandbadger.com/eu/draped-velvet-top-in-black/

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:52

Thanks for all of these so far. Trying to keep up with links now!

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 19:54

The TB one is a nice shape but ~I think the shoulders might be a bit too puffy.

I don't like the royal blue one. Velvet one is too high necked.

I wondered about a Whistles sparkle jumper because they're really thin, but maybe a bit too ~New Years Eve-ish?

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Esmereldaaa · 07/01/2023 20:03

Gosh you're very fussy!

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 20:08

That's incredibly useful @Esmereldaaa Thanks.

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DistantSkye · 07/01/2023 20:37

Sorry posted too soon!

Boden wrap cardy
Whistles velvet wrap

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 07/01/2023 20:40

DistantSkye · 07/01/2023 20:37

I was just looking at the Whistles wrap! Love it in green but not available.

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