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Do I chop it off?!

137 replies

niki26 · 04/07/2022 15:48

I have had long hair for years and years. I've just booked a hair appointment for the first time in about three years and I fancy something different.

I am really fat. Really really overweight. So I feel like short hair makes my face look rounder/fatter BUT with my long thin hair I also feel like I look like a bit of a slob as well. My hair is thin and the ends are terrible. I really wish I could go into a hairdressers and tell them to do what they want - something that will make me look amazing but they all stare blankly and say 'it's up to you'. So I get two inches off and go about my day. I want something different this time!

I've just been trying dresses on so my daughter took a pic of me - I don't generally have any pics of me so this is probably the best I can do.

Do I chop it off?!
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Amid · 05/07/2022 13:17

Looks great !

Also love the dress !!.

Wellthatsachangeforthebetter · 05/07/2022 13:20

Lovely 😁😁😁😁

ChrisPriss · 05/07/2022 15:21

Your hair looks lovely and shiny!

quietnightmare · 05/07/2022 15:29

Looks so much nicer. Next time if your feeling brave add more layers in as it will make it look thin let and a side parting with a side fringe will work for you. Colour wise some lowlights mixed in there will work lovely

quietnightmare · 05/07/2022 15:30

Make it look thicker I mean

anybloodyname · 05/07/2022 15:33

Love it ! Looks thicker , shiny and healthy

You can still swish it around

minipie · 05/07/2022 15:37

Lovely, so much thicker and looks more like a deliberate choice iyswim.

I agree with some colour maybe, but don’t get layers put in! If you wanted you could get some graduation round the face to blend the fringe in a bit , but I would definitely avoid all over layers.

catwithflowers · 05/07/2022 21:08

bert3400 · 04/07/2022 16:31

A blunt cut bob looks great on thin straight hair

That cut in the pic is amazing (and of course she is incredibly beautiful) but I can't imagine the average person with thin straight hair (ie me 😂) could ever achieve that result. Firstly I don't think to her hair is at all thin, or at least if it is she has loads of it. And I could never get my hair to wave like that for more than 10 minutes.

Gorgeous hair but is it realistic?

catwithflowers · 05/07/2022 21:09

Oh and your haircut is great OP. Great decision! You look lovely 😊

whyohehy · 05/07/2022 21:10

That looks soooooo nice! Smile

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 05/07/2022 21:12

You look smashing flower 😊

The4teddybears · 05/07/2022 21:20

I was going to say have a fringe and have it cut shorter, but I see you have done so already … and it looks fabulous.
So much more stylish and it really suits you.
I hope you’re happy with the outcome .
You should be as it’s lovely .

limitededitionbarbie · 05/07/2022 21:27

As a side note that dress looks fab it's lovely on you

Iamatbrakingpointyouknow · 05/07/2022 22:08

you look lovely in that dress...you are not what I would call fat, more pleasantly plump. Maybe keep a bit of the length, but have some layers with a side swept fringe. I think you will look gorgeous.

ladygindiva · 05/07/2022 22:12

Really love the new look, your hair looks more thick and healthy x

Nothappyatwork · 05/07/2022 22:12

Beautiful, super shiny too

Boating123 · 05/07/2022 22:44

Good choice.
Thanks for showing us.

CaptainTroy · 05/07/2022 22:46

I agree with PP. A good few inches off.

CaptainTroy · 05/07/2022 22:47

Yep that’s better.

Shelaydownunderthetable · 05/07/2022 22:49

Looks great! I love the cut!

buckeejit · 05/07/2022 23:06

@LaurieFairyCake that yapoy looks great - have you used it?

My hair is fine & im crap with gadgets. Love the babyliss big hair though & birthday coming up so this could be fun. I barely have waves & tried a few curly girl things that haven't been great & this occasionally would be good!

PokerFace123 · 05/07/2022 23:55

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 05/07/2022 21:12

You look smashing flower 😊

I heard Sarah Millican when I read that 😆

Fakeplant · 06/07/2022 00:48

Looks fab Op! Lovely choice

blisstwins · 06/07/2022 02:19

Looks amazing and is that the dress in the other color? Made for you. I hope you feel good because you look good! Taking care of yourself is something we all need to do. I am writing from the bike at the gym because I have also neglected myself and feenit. But these changes are so nice. You really do look lovely and this is a great cut!

LaurieFairyCake · 06/07/2022 06:34

buckeejit

Yes, use it twice a week! It's great, takes about 20 minutes to do my full extensioned head - if you've fine hair like I do under my mane it's really quick

I then just ruffle my fingers gently through after - it's a stupidly easy gadget, use small sections