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Dh hates my new dress, what do you think?

232 replies

KatyS36 · 19/08/2021 19:11

Hello,

New dress, sale bargain, cosy, doesn't crease(!). Asked dh for an option on which size was the most flattering, but he really dislikes it.

Now I dress for myself, dh is lovely (and to be fair I did ask his opinion) but it's given me a bit of a wobble.

It mainly for work, in a kind of chuck on and not worry about. Dh massively prefers my other dresses. I'm an hour glass size 16, and a lot of my dressed are more fitted, but I think they look a bit dated now.

I though this was an on trend and flattering day dress, but now I'm doubting myself.

Tags still attached, it can go back.

What do you think? I'm late 40s.

Dh hates my new dress, what do you think?
OP posts:
torchh · 19/08/2021 19:12

Not really flattering around the middle

Marni83 · 19/08/2021 19:12

I’m afraid I don’t like it at all

ExtremelyDisorganised · 19/08/2021 19:13

I think its too much black if I'm honest, males it a bit severe.

TooWicked · 19/08/2021 19:13

That’s a no, sorry. Send it back.

Burntoutbarbara · 19/08/2021 19:13

Ooh sorry I think he’s right. It doesn’t fit well. It looks too big and the thin belt does nothing for your waist.

Definitely better options out there although I know it can be tempting when something seems a bargain.

loubielou31 · 19/08/2021 19:13

I don't think it's very flattering if I am honest. Take it back and get something else.

MargotEmin · 19/08/2021 19:14

It does you no favours at all, sorry

BanningTheWordNaice · 19/08/2021 19:14

Sorry but I agree with your DH. This wouldn’t flatter me either!

Tatapie · 19/08/2021 19:14

Think the waist is too low and agree it's too black so it's not doing you justice!

FlorenceNightshade · 19/08/2021 19:14

It looks a bit big but I like it! Some bright tights are all I’d add but that just me

WTF475878237NC · 19/08/2021 19:15

Sorry, not particularly flattering and quite shapeless I'm afraid.

harriethoyle · 19/08/2021 19:15

Nope. It looks like a sack! Way too big for you (so maybe that's a silver lining if it's your usual size?!)

AnneLovesGilbert · 19/08/2021 19:15

It doesn’t suit you. It wouldn’t suit most people.

Shurl · 19/08/2021 19:15

Hi OP, it doesn't look bad imo, but it doesn't look great either. Sorry. I wouldn't look twice if I saw you walking down the street, but i'm not sure it's a particularly flattering shape for you. I think it's the sleeves, they look quite wide at the wrist. Can you try rolling the sleeves up to 3/4 length to see if that balances things out a bit?

Also, are you wearing a bra that gives you good shape? They look like they might need a bit more support, but that could also be the dress neckline

ChatterMonkey · 19/08/2021 19:15

Sorry no i dont think thats very flattering at all.

anon12345678901 · 19/08/2021 19:16

I agree with your DH, it gives you no shape whatsoever and is not flattering.

LizzieSiddal · 19/08/2021 19:16

I think it’s because it’s all black, it doesn’t look great to be honest.

Pebbledashery · 19/08/2021 19:16

Looks like a paper bag.. Not flattering at all. Sorry.

QueenBee52 · 19/08/2021 19:16

do you have a nice soft stretchy belt you could try with it.. to give it a feature 🌸

Atalune · 19/08/2021 19:16

Something not quite right- the sleeves are too voluminous, try rolling them up at bit to just below the elbow?
Try with a waist cinching belt?

It’s a bit of a sack and with your hourglass figure I think it drowns you.

TangledUp789 · 19/08/2021 19:16

I don’t like it at all, sorry.

Wallabyone · 19/08/2021 19:17

I don't think it's you-it's the dress!
It's a bit loose and harsh, the sleeves are too long and the thin belt isn't great.

FetchezLaVache · 19/08/2021 19:17

Another one for Team DH!

Aquamarine1029 · 19/08/2021 19:17

Sorry, it's very unflattering. It doesn't suit your shape at all.

pilates · 19/08/2021 19:18

Sorry no it’s not very flattering 😔

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