I’ve been reading the relationship section on MN, and have learned about red flags in relationships, and I’m now wondering if Harry isn’t in an abusive type of relationship.
Bear with me....
He’s emotionally vulnerable as a person, and not too bright, well known for his inappropriate use of nazi costumes (if wearing anything), class c drugs and allegedly a helping hand from his art teacher.
Used to hanging out with his older brother who has always been there for him, but his older brother has moved on as a young dad and has his road mapped out for him. Harry is at a loose end.
Now he’s met someone who has been around the block and knows what she wants, and against advice from his brother, has married quickly, and has moved away from his support structure and advisors to accommodate her and her family, and is now isolated from his own family.
He’s got pregnant early on in the relationship, now has a baby, and has been restyled by his new wife. “What Meghan wants, Meghan gets”, seems to be the mantra.. even if that includes hypocrisy.
To me it seems there are more red flags there than a ski slalom.
Now it seems that they’ve been uninvited by HRHtQ from the family gathering in balmoral... nothing colder than a royal shoulder... but I’m thinking, maybe Harry needs rescuing? He looks so unhappy, wearing clothes and a role that neither fits nor suits. Never smiling, looking hounded and very much not at ease with himself.
So my question is.. Do you think Harry’s ok?
Should Will intervene and offer him some help?