No, I can't feel sorry for Melania I'm afraid. She knew what she was marrying, and she played hard to get to reel him in. There are transactional benefits for her too. There are a lot of perks to being FLOTUS.
I find them all utterly creepy and shameless. I can't even wax lyrical about Melania and Ivanka's so called beauty since it's all surgically achieved.
And if I hear "Special Relationship" one more time I shall scream. Yes, they helped us out in the war, probably saved us from losing it, but don't they go on about it! Especially given that any war the Americans try to fight on their own they are spectacularly shit at.