I personally wouldn’t disregard anything.
If she specifically asked for the emerald tiara, or told Charlotte off for fidgeting at the dress fittings Then i don’t see why the media would make this up , it doesn’t add up, there is a whole story and we are just being drip fed. 🤷🏻♀️
She was an actress, so she is used to being persistent at getting what she wants, and MM seems like someone who really is savvy and hardworking at getting what she wants.