Hope you feel better soon, Judy!
Thanks soooo much everyone for the suggestions. It's kind of a pity I don't have more than two wrists to try this stuff on, as it's going to take a while! Today I went in to a shop that sells Diptyque and tried Do Son EDP and the Eau Des Sens EDT. Both were awful on me (confirmed by the 5 year old, who told me over supper later that the wrist with Eau Des Sens sprayed on it smelled like a dog had weed on me! the worst thing was that it was true!
It smelled gorgeous before I sprayed it on my skin, so I think it's my skin chemistry...)
The Do Son was nicer but still not 'me'. Kind of more like a florist's shop in a sort of leafy, humid, slightly unappealing way. Again, it smelled lush before I put it on.... WTF am I even looking for? I have no idea. I have already gone on a monoi oil binge and ordered loads (8 bottles) of Yves Rocher's Monoi de Tahiti -- a body oil rather than a fragrance, but supposedly a dupe for my beloved Monyette de Paris. It's ok, but it isn't a dupe for it on my ridiculous skin.
Teta and Calm, thank you soooo much for your suggestions, which will be next on my list to check out, in the order that I spot them in shops I pass!
I do love the MH Hidden one that I'm wearing a lot at work, but I feel like it's better for daytimes and the office, and not my "signature scent" that will make my favourite people think of me.