good article in the Irish Independant. It implies the whispers are coming from courtiers as a warning to Meghan "we've been through diva shit before, we won't take it from someone who won't even be bloody Queen"
I read that as well. They don't want another superstar in the royal family.
Surely there are kinder ways of going about sending that message, even if it is defensible, than snidely and publicly attacking her, especially many months later and while she is pregnant.