Tyaca, in general, orientals are the longest-lasting perfumes. LADDM is very potent but look at other ambers and spicy perfumes too. Leather perfumes and other perfumes that contain less volatile ingredients (heavier raw materials like labdanum, birch tar) also tend to be longer-lasting. I once had a smelling strip dipped in castoreum. I kept it on my dresser and it smelled tarry and earthy for about six months. If you want seriously heavy perfumes, find Alfarom from Basenotes and read his blog Nero Profumo. He is into the blackwst, tarriest, leatheriest things known to man. If you want smoke, Bois d'Ascese and Lonestar Memories are worth a try.
There are other ways to extend the life of a perfume. Certain ingredients make a perfume more tenacious - things like certain musks and Iso E Super. Many of us are anosmic to some perfume ingredients so if you smell poof and then nothing, you might miss a certain ingredient that others can smell. Perfumers often use a mixture of musks to prevent this from happening. Some of them are partially or totally anosmic to certain ingredients themselves! There is a story about First by Van Cleef & Arpels, JC Ellena's first major perfume, I think he had to make it last overnight and kept tinkering with the formula until he got the brief. If you spray perfume on your hair, clothes (careful there) or a handkerchief, it goes on for much longer.
Some perfumes are fleeting, but so pretty that it is worthwhile. Many L'Artisans and Goutals are like this, they are famous for their short lifespan. Colognes are by their nature fleeting, they are meant to be a quick refreshing pick-me-up. Chanel perfumes have some serious engineering in them, I get 12 hours of wear from quite a few of them (usually EDPs - extraits are more fleeting on me usually).
If you get seriously into perfume, you will start liking perfumes that will not go on forever. Especially very linear perfumes can get tiresome, that photorealistic metallic cherry note is fun for fifteen minutes and then torture for the next eight hours... There is a law nature that if you accidentally spray something that you deeply dislike on you, it will be hellishly tenacious and also get on your coat sleeve 
Many Montales are also extremely long-lasting. If you want nuclear sillage, the Dior boutique perfumes Oud Ispahan and Leather Oud are hard to beat, so is Portrait of the Lady from Malle