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The Darling Crepes of May

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CointreauVersial · 12/05/2014 17:25

My turn......

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herbaceous · 22/05/2014 14:48

From googling - I've had no work to do today, as blasted suggested interviewee is being elusive - it seems the main financial benefits are inheritance tax and pensions. So, both to do with dying. Cheery. Yet inevitable.

I'm glad to hear about the increase in trust, WAF. When you've been bumbling along, with not much overtly said but lots of implicit little ways of being, it feels a huge change like getting married could upset the delicate dynamic, but not in a good way.

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 14:50

partners income

herbaceous · 22/05/2014 14:59

From what I cah gather, household income affects whether I could get a grant, but not a loan, which I could get anyway...

lalsy · 22/05/2014 15:03

Herbs, that was our conclusion (IHT and pensions). Marriage made no difference to me emotionally - but I was ideologically committed to the idea that it shouldn't, as I didn't want dc to think they had had a second class set up until then. So have made a point of being as grumpy with dh as I was before. It was good fun though Smile

motherinferior · 22/05/2014 15:04

I funded our house AND two (2, ii) maternity leaves. Ho yes Angry

I find money conversations vv difficult but have seized bull by nettle myself to point out to DP that if he's backing my India trip (which he is, financially as well) the dent in that month's finances also have to be taken into account. For once he listened (is more inclined to urge me to earn more from the Work Fairy usuallyAngry).

I am vvvvvvv lucky in the nurse at my practice who has done my smear test twice and it didn't hurt AT ALL. I couldn't believe it and thanked her with literal tears in my actual eyes.

bigTillyMint · 22/05/2014 15:28

We got married after 4 years together, 9 months after DD was born. I wanted us all to have the same surname (after years of confusion with different surnames for children/parents at work!) In reality, I think it made me (and DH!) feel more secure in the relationship and the fact that we need to work together and sort out problems as we are in it for the long-haul. Not that there are any guarantees about itSmile

We have had a joint account since marrying (although our wages get paid into our own accounts - we have DD's into it according to respective earnings!) and aside from DH being more miserly than me (and I am no spendthrift!) it all works fine. I don't actually think about it being my money or his money any more IYSWIM.

motherinferior · 22/05/2014 15:42

And the birthday madness begins...anyone know anywhere nice to eat in Skipton for my dad's 80th?

wordassociationfootball · 22/05/2014 17:48

Good luck with Skipton restaurant recs MI!

The universe knew... as soon as I started pricing up four days in the nice hotels of Bognor Butlins.... whap! Passport through letterbox!!!!!!!!

PARIS HERE WE COME. Mrs S Chartier looks fantastic. Is it really no booking? Will be fab for us as we eat dead early so might have chance of a table.

Can I stretch you and hatty to thoughts of a good but moins cher vegetarian restaurant? Think I remember an old Jewish one in the Marais....

herbaceous · 22/05/2014 19:00

Hurrah for the passport! I had a similar nightmare. Though with the Peterborough office, before a v expensive, non-refundable trip to Spain, our first hol abroad with DS.

The feeling of jubilation rivals that if illicit drugs, I should imagine.

SheherazadeSchadenfreude · 22/05/2014 19:18

WAF - yes, no booking, just turn up and queue, or go straight in if not busy. While in that area, you need to have a wander through the "passages" which are beautiful. Veg restaurant in the Marais - we used to eat at Mi-Va-Mi, which is falafel a go go - lots of other falafel joints there, but service was always friendly at Mi-Va-Mi and always easy to get a seat (especially if you eat early). Where are you staying? I will let you know details of my favourite restaurant if you are nearby (it is a bit off the beaten track).

Today on the course was a bit better, but I have reached the stage of not caring whether I pass the final exam or not. Today wasn't too bad at all, until I got a panicky and screamy phone call from DD1, after which words like "product", "project", "supplier" and "user" leaped around on the page and I could barely remember my name.

No financial advice for you Herbs (I was a child bride Grin). We do Joyless Saving, as in we are not saving for anything specific, save one third of our take home pay in various investments and schemes, and never reap nay benefit from it, due to DH having a rather shitty childhood and never wanting to be poor again. I hate it and am going to take some of my savings out for a holiday, and don't care what he says.

Crem - try tramadol with paracetamol - it sort of supercharges the tramadol, apparently, according to my doctor in Paris. It made me feel very odd indeed (I was on a cocktail of drugs, so it may not just have been the tramadol) and I thought I was going to die in the night one night.

herbaceous · 22/05/2014 19:22

There's no saving here, joyless or otherwise, which I realise is a grave error. But we do go on holidays.

wordassociationfootball · 22/05/2014 20:04

It's in the 8th Mrs S, nearest metro Madeleine.

"Enfin un hôtel familial et très tranquille. Je le recommande."

wordassociationfootball · 22/05/2014 20:09

Not much in the way of savings here either, although DH squirrels some nuts away hither and yon in a reassuring way.

Is it here Mrs S:

Cour du Bel Air

Hidden away off the trendy Faubourg Saint-Antoine are dozens of passages and courtyards with ancient ateliers that are now prime real estate. They are like rural villages in the heart of Paris. Cour du Bel Air is one of the most beautiful, with cobbles, trees, flowers and walls covered with ivy. There is an arty bookshop, L'Arbre à Lettres (arbrealettres.com). Other passages worth visiting are L'Homme (26 rue de Charonne), and Passage du Chantier (66 rue du Faubourg Saint-Antoine).
• 56 rue du Faubourg Saint-Antoine, 12th, metro Ledru-Rollin

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 20:11

Mrs s yes definitely seems to be the two drugs together. It's still shite though. Feels like I prefer to slice it off than continue with the constant strangling thrum.
Dd came off badly after yellow fever vac: went green, puked, keeled over and hit the gps floor . Shock
She's ok now but the cut of the two of us at the hustings casting our votes hanging on to one another was a bit like the Addams Family goes to Europe.Confused

wordassociationfootball · 22/05/2014 20:13

Oh Crem! Sorry, listen to me pulling at Mrs S's other sleeve about Paris while you are in agony. Sciatia is pure hell, have had it twice and the memory is very fresh and I do really sympathise

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 20:37

Thanks Waf I'm sorry to go on - it's taking over somewhat. I am full of self-pity. But when it suddenly stops momentarily , I am like a surprised baby rabbit , running about saying " look my leg is working!!!" It only lasts about 20 minutes and then I'm back to bitter old bag mode.
Much much rather talk about Paris and wonderful restaurants.
Don't forget about fondue as a veggie option. Dh and dd both yearn for this occasionally. Or Creperie - I'm sure mrs s knows a good one.

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 20:38

Thanks Waf I'm sorry to go on - it's taking over somewhat. I am full of self-pity. But when it suddenly stops momentarily , I am like a surprised baby rabbit , running about saying " look my leg is working!!!" It only lasts about 20 minutes and then I'm back to bitter old bag mode.
Much much rather talk about Paris and wonderful restaurants.
Don't forget about fondue as a veggie option. Dh and dd both yearn for this occasionally. Or Creperie - I'm sure mrs s knows a good one.

NearTheWindymill · 22/05/2014 20:49

I will read it all and catch up. Sounds interesting: smears, marriage, passports, holidays - beats bra colour hands' down Grin.

I am sooo tired it hurts. Five hours of interviewing, then a DP level meeting. DH is out telling and then going to the count I think Shock.

SheherazadeSchadenfreude · 22/05/2014 20:55

here WAF - just round the corner from Chartier and Bourse. And here they all are Passage Jouffroy is just round the corner from Chartier - you might like the Musee Grevin - we never made it there, despite best intentions, due to the queues. If you go, go early.

wordassociationfootball · 22/05/2014 21:26

Fondue = fun do Smile

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 21:29

I love the dolls house furniture shop in the Passage Jouffroy. Endless fascination with life in miniatureGrin
There's a pretty patisserie tea shop there too - Art Deco stylee.
The passages are a wonderful wander if it's raining.

cremolafoam · 22/05/2014 21:32

Fungi= fun guy
Grin @WAF

SheherazadeSchadenfreude · 22/05/2014 21:42

There is an excellent pizza restaurant near you, WAF, and it is never busy in the evening as most of its trade is at lunch time. I will PM you the details.

SheherazadeSchadenfreude · 22/05/2014 21:48

I have also PM'd you the details of the Men In Skirts restaurant.

NearTheWindymill · 22/05/2014 23:07

Palpitates.

There has just been a lot of noise in the hall. Fat ginge has run in with a grey shape in his mouth (mouse, bird, small rat?). I shouted and he ran out again. Have sent DH a text telling him to come home fast. He deals with dead or semi live things. Ginge ran out fast when I shouted - has he let it go - is it running.

Can dd and nip upstairs without seeing anything nasty?

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