Tops that don't make busty women look frumpy!

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Help?!

Everything seems to look frumpy on my large boobs,unless it's tight and then I just look tarty!

Need some day tops for wearing under cardies and now terrified jumpers are going to look dreadful too.

I hate my J's

I always wear baloney te but moulded look too big

Lol at baloney. Moulded ones good for cold days ??

Ove that dress and cashmere jumper. Some great clothes being recommended on here.

all the young folk wear moulded I'm told. H commented on the sillouette. He never does normally.

I think men do notice that more than actual clothes plus if you get it right with a balcony (not baloney)clothes are transformed.

Moulded make you look smaller because the shape is better, I know it seems counterintuitive but you should at least give them a go.

I'll try on one. I do usually have balconette ones.

Dd atelier have got some lovely dresses!

However I'm a bit confused by their sizing. I'm a 34 G and a size 14 on my bottom half. Has anyone worked out what their size would be by their measuring system ( and what mine might be? Crap at working things like this out..!)

I absolutely love the dress evertonmint linked to but I would look so frumpy and matronly in that :(. I can't do any kind of blousiness on the top half especially puffed sleeves. Combined with lace and a Peter Pan collar I would look hideous which is a real shame as I love that style. Curse you 34FFs (not even that big judging by this thread but really hard to dress with).

Incidentally does anyone else get sick of lack of bra choice? Quite a few places now do DD+ ranges but even M&S don't stock my size let alone anywhere else. I get a bit fed up of only buying online.

I just don't buy pretty bras anymore they don't give me a good shape and I'd rather have my boobs looking fantastic with clothes on....dh keen on them with clothes off.

Agree. Lacy bras are at the bottom of the drawer. Plus h not interested in underwear

Per una bras give a great shape and lacy but I am underwear fanatic have loads. Like plain under fitted. And tshirts.

I saw various norksome women raving about this site, on twitter recently:

www.saintbustier.com/

lol emma freud
a) buy your own shirts you ligger
b) wash it

These are some lovely dresses...

dd-atelier.com/Dresses/

Hope link works, just learnt about how to link from my phone today!

Yay it worked! :)

( still can't work out my bloody size tho..)

Working titters. This jumper is great for smart trews. I got two first time round. bit.ly/15UxBiG
More flattering than a cardigan

Cambridgeblue - I would never go near that dress myself but DH thrust it at me when we were in JL. I tried it reluctantly but it looked amazing - my 34Hs looked anything but matronly. I was really surprised! It's the white bit down the middle I think - does something visually to break it all up. Really worth a try.

Getting some great ideas here. Thanks. Just ordered the fantasie bra

Late to the party so apologies if these have been mentioned but knot front / twist front tops are the friend of the well endowed. I've yet to wear one that doesn't flatter.

I look huge in knot front ones - they draw far more attention than I want/need to my boobs and make me feel v uncomfortable.

Well,I've started by ordering some cowl neck tees,that's a starting point!Got jumpers and cardis on the way,just a shame most of the 'pretty' jumpers have a higher neckline :(

Now onto the God awful mission of a non ugly,non parka,waterproof coat that fits big boobs and doesn't make you look like a whale!

Thanks for starting this thread triptrap, I've got a few good ideas for tops to try.

i look like pistol tits in cross overs

TripTrap - let me know if you find that coat - I've been searching for one for years.

Cross over's don't suit me either. Partially because my right boob is about two sizes bigger than my left.