Tops that don't make busty women look frumpy!

[TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge]

Help?!

Everything seems to look frumpy on my large boobs,unless it's tight and then I just look tarty!

Need some day tops for wearing under cardies and now terrified jumpers are going to look dreadful too.

I hate my J's

gggirl - you need a BIG scarf, thats wot

in the work place cleavage is NOT right.
I dont talk to men at work about their cock size, or does that help them love themselves/>

I don't know how to wear a scarf... what are you doing with them? Long scarves just drop forward at the same distance from my body as my tits, which isn't v. flattering. If I make them shorter, they just add even more emphasis to my norkage.

Please tell me how to wear scarves in a flattering manner!

sorry off topic - hey ggirl - i have news that will make you wee.

and you cheesy.
ready?

get scarf

wrap around neck twice ( attempts with kitchen teacloth) adn then tie a knot in front. thats what i do

oh acutally i will dm you

There are double standards depending what your work place is. I work predominantly with men and I am 'the boss' as it were but in summer when they are all in shorts and no shirts I have to be really careful and cannot reveal anything

Hey perv ,what news ???

and i do that with my ginormous scarves and they sit on top of my tits and I can barely see past

Thanks Perv!

I do my scarf like that too Anything longer and my boobs act as a tramploine and the scarf keeps jumping lol

too small

ppffffffffffffft ...am gonna say to next male colleague..." your cock looks great in those trousers" hahah

i had to tie the tea towel to remember

I am wearing less scarves this year though AM liking the spartan look very slimming

you know when you go to work (!) AND ITS freezing in the am and 17 by the afternoon? that is when i find them useful

Mine are massive 30jj and I do hate em. Have considered reduction but nhs won't and I am too chicken really. I've also got a comparatively small waist 29" - not weeny but my vitals are 41-29-39 so v 50s I suppose.

I find the in yer face/loud and proud tops inappropriate tbh; the weight of my jugs also means that even in the best fitting bra I can lose my waist. Tend to go for a top and scarf combo mostly - v or scoop necks best - but I do like tops which are fitted at the back cos this shows I am quite slim really. And legs. I've got good legs and like people to know this.

I fight a daily battle against Hattie Jakes.

I fight a daily battle against Hattie Jakes.

ROAR

'Cept she was French innit

Jaques

hey noddy - anthea thread

Oi bog off with yer fancy spelling and your knowledge of how to do them frenchie accent things

I find shirts the hardest once I find one that works I wear it until it falls apart literally!

Poor old Hattie and her maternity type smocks

I am 30FF with hourglass shape. I generally (not so much at the moment - see my maternity thread) wear quite tight fitting clothes.

I recommend wrap tops, boat or slash neck blouses and tops and white fitted shirts with a scarf. I have a lovely Zara white shirt from the charity shop.

I generally recommend scarves anyway - they are great at adding colour to outfits (see my maternity thread for a general whine about black dominating office wear) and covering up food spillages . And also for cheaply ringing the changes.

I have also noticed that when I wear lower cut dresses, male colleagues are more likely approach me with queries that should go to my team. In certain circumstances this is useful