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Beating the January Blues by Following our Wise & Avid (Roxy) Rules

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OllieinOrange · 09/01/2012 21:32

Best I could come up with......

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MarshaBrady · 09/01/2012 21:34

Well done Ollie. Just beat me! I wanted to say ha at your dh's reaction.

notyummy · 09/01/2012 21:34

Stamp- thanks!

Hopefully · 09/01/2012 21:35

Love the title!

sniff - Amber that's exactly the way I feel about our family now we have DS2. You've put it so much more eloquently than I would manage though.

Blue thank you for the welcome! I'm so glad to have de-lurked on this thread. You're all so... I want to say 'nice', but that doesn't cover it! You're a bunch of impressive women, one way and another. Thanks

OIO I had exactly the same feeling of being aware that DH just wasn't high up my priority list for a long time after DS2 was born. It was a bit of a struggle at times (especially with added stress of getting married 3 months after DS2 was born), but we are so even more 'solid' than we ever were after it all (although we are boringly solid and not-tempestuous at the best of times. Grin)

Marsha those Carvela boots are lovely but Blush I need even less of a heel for day to day running around. About 1.5" is my max for something I can wear all day, and ideally less. The skinnies I wear most days are these Kew ones - they are pretty long on me. However, have just bought zipped ankle Topshop skinnies, and have Agnes arriving from the States at some point, so need something to wear with them too. Would be good to be able to wear whatever boots I get with (hypothetical) denim mini as well. I'm basically looking to solve my annual spring footwear dilemma in one hit Hmm. I am semi-contemplating fly boots (normally verboten because of the foul soles, but these ones appear to have normal soles) and Timberland Bethels, but really not sure if they're quite right for what I want. I basically have no idea what I want, shoe wise. What do other people do for that awkward baking-hot-in-big-winter-boots-but-too-cold-for-ballet-pumps-and-sandals weather?

OllieinOrange · 09/01/2012 21:39

Hopefully MiM and I both have the Kew biker boots. I wear mine a lot with skinnies and shorter skirts. Would they work for you?
Incidentally I have the Kew skinnies too - very impressed with them, no bagging and have retained their colour v well too.

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Hopefully · 09/01/2012 21:43

OIO they'd be perfect, but are sold out in my ginormo-foot size (UK8). Rather pleased with the Kew jeans. I could live with them being an inch higher in the rise, since they're every day jeans, but they've washed and worn really well (considering that for the past 8 weeks or so they have been my only pair of trousers. I am not exaggerating).

ApuskiMcClusky · 09/01/2012 21:47

Stamp ! (having made next to no contribution on the previous thread). I'm still not quite right, and frankly getting bored of feeling lightheaded and headachy, but I'm due back at work tomorrow so that'll either make me forget about it or make it much worse!

Great thread title Ollie, had scanned enough to get the reference!

Will now try to catch up with the rest of the last thread.

And I still have sales reporting to do when my bloody laptop decides to work...

OllieinOrange · 09/01/2012 21:47

Picking up from the previous thread...

NYE would dropping DSs nap to every other day help?

Notyummy congrats on the successful application of the Roxy test to the Whistles coated skinnies! Shame tho!
Red I too have asked complete strangers to park my car! Once when I had a huge faff parking it in a street once, some mechanics from a garage there actually came out to watch and applauded when I eventually parked!
Afternoon Nap what a lovely poem. Please drop in again with future words of wisdom. I have the following written in my diary
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain
Ants you summed up January so well, a bastard month indeed (unless you are having a baby of course!)

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OllieinOrange · 09/01/2012 21:48

Hopefully I have a 7 and they are big, I have had to get insoles for mine (I have them in the black and the brown!).
M&S has something similar, will go and look for a link

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MidnightinMoscow · 09/01/2012 21:50

Thanks for the new thread Ollie.

Yes, I have the Kew bikers too Hopefully. You could try calling a Kew store, they sent mine from another store to my local one for me.

Hope tomorrow finds you feeling better Apuski.

Oh Red I have sky+'ed Coppers.

Night all.

OllieinOrange · 09/01/2012 21:51

M&S boots here here. Also come in brown suede.

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Hopefully · 09/01/2012 21:53

Oh, and I've just noticed the Reiss sale. Never normally look on there. Am coveting shirt dress, Livia dress for wearing to a wedding, another skirt dress and www.reissonline.com/shop/womens/accessories/jewellery/laura/coral/bangle.

Hopefully · 09/01/2012 21:55

Interesting that Kew run big - I am more like a 7.5 than an 8, so might just work. I might call my local store tomorrow and see if they can get them in - don't really want to order yet another while still waiting for card refund on the last two pairs I've sent back. M&S boots are lovely (and comfy!), but I want brown, and the brown suede ones are really more grey than brown. V odd colour.

AmberNectarine · 09/01/2012 22:05

Grin at ollie's DH!

I found the red ran maybe a little big red, I got a 27, the pink were ridiculously small though, had to go up to a 29. The cobalts I got a 28 and that is the size I usually wear in J Brand (agnes, houlis and jodhpurs all 28) etc. I think we can factor out Earharts altogether because yours fit perfectly and let's face it I'm no 26...

Ah, back to shallow trivia, normal service resumed, but thanks for the nice comments re. my witterings.

AmberNectarine · 09/01/2012 22:13

Also, all lurkers, de-lurk! We're a welcoming bunch!

notyummy · 09/01/2012 22:16

I like that Livia dress Hopefully.

I have also sky plused Coppers Red.

VerityBrulee · 09/01/2012 22:20

So sorry to hear so many of us have been feeling a bit blue today, but I totally agree with Fritzi - it's the full moon! I was catching up earlier while making supper and I kept saying to the iphone 'it's just the moon'! Honestly, my GP who was the most sensible lady I've ever met said she thought the effects of the full moon were a load of rubbish until she was a junior doctor and worked in A&E Grin

red I feel your pain, I have had that experience so many times. FWIW, Topshop Kristens are the best jeans I have ever tried. I have 2 indigo pairs of differing lenghts, a red and a cobalt. They come in lots more colours than are on the TS site ATM, always lots on ebay. I also find Ralph Lauren jeans and trousers are great cuts for me. Also Oasis can be good. Houlis were totally out for me, but I found a great pair of Oasis houli-alikes. I need to be in a great mood to go jeans shopping as it can be a salutory experience. I also echo what Annie says, when I cut out dairy, my thighs shrink! Don't let it get you down, we haven't met but you are clearly a stunner from your photos Smile

Hopefully our local shoemaker changed my life recently when my mum, who loves her heels but hurt her back recently and was sick of wearing flats, discovered he can take about 1/2" from the heel of any shoe/boot. Now I look at much higher heels than I used to knowing they can be customised! I have a lovely pair of brown Farhi ankle boots, I'll root around for a link.

Marsha It will probably be a great bonding experience for dh and ds to go to the interview. Take him out for cake afterwards and he can tell you all about it.

Carciofi I can see why you'd want to stick with a FurReal! I really think you deserve a regular babysitter, your dh works such long hours, it's the last thing I'd give up if I were you.

MIM I think you're absolutely right, you have had a really rough time recently and the Roxy will give you a lift. I used to expect that my dh would think the same as me and realise what/why I was feeling, but it has dawned on me that his brain works sooo differently to mine Grin I need to spell. everything. out! It is really different when you lose your financial independance, but if he has trips away, you need treats too, otherwise resentment breeds very quickly and it's hard to go back from there. I have become very adept at squirrelling money away so that when a Roxy moment arises I have a fund. Dh and I have a tricky relationship a lot of the time, but as with toddlers and babies, it's all a phase and it will pass.

As for new babies arriving, when ds1 was a baby we were inseperable, the first night I left him was the night ds2 was born. But because we had such a bond, he was totally fine about the new baby, and they have always been the best of friends. They can fight like cat and dog, but they realise they are lucky to have one another.

Ollie I hope you are on the mend now. I always feel like that after Christmas, I pour so much energy into making it as perfect as I can that I'm burnt out by january. You are so right to plan treats to look forward to. I went to see Woody Allens 'Midnight in Paris' one morning before the holidays, it was such a treat, I felt good for days because of it.

I've taken so long to type this I've probably missed loads!

blossoming · 09/01/2012 22:25

Did your DH hear 'fancy a ....' ollie Wink thanks for new thread.
I've missed out on loads of chat tonight. Thanks for the poem afternoon.
Watching Coppers on +1. Are we going to see you in handcuffs red?
Just been watching an amazing film which I could use for my A Level Spanish students next year. Maria full of grace. Fantastic.

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Zembo · 09/01/2012 22:36

Just lost a massive long post as tried to post on the old thread. Nevermind, only enough time to mark my place now!

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VerityBrulee · 09/01/2012 22:43

The postman brought some treats this morning, a J Crew navy down coat with a grosgain ribbon belt, navy patent Tory Burch ballerinas (the logo is patent too so not as obvious as a gold one), a red cashmere fine knit crew neck, and this hat. Almost a complete outfit!

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VerityBrulee · 09/01/2012 22:49

Love that Livia Hopefully I spotted this in Reiss, totally yummy colour. Of course I need another bag like a hole in the head, but that has never stopped me before!