I'm so pissed off and upset at something H said this evening.
I'll try to cut a longer story short... We have 1 DS together who is 2 and my husband has two older children.
My son's birthday is coming up in 2 weeks. It was my step sons birthday a week ago.
For reasons I won't go into in depth here, we have separate bank accounts.
I asked H tonight if he could send me some money towards DS's present and a little family party we are having (just some food with family but we've got a cake ordered and some balloons so going to be about £100).
Anyway he said he didn't have the money and he was already in his overdraft. We got into a bit of an argument (money is and splitting of it is a bit of a sore subject) and he said "I guess if you can't afford it you can't do it" meaning because I arranged the party I can pay for it all or not do it if I can't.
I am so upset about this. The reason being he is only in his bloody overdraft because he completely overspent on DSS's birthday the other week (yes Inc for a party!).
How fucking hypocritical can you be? I'm so hurt for DS that his own father would be like that over him having a small party and present for his birthday "if you can't afford it don't do it". It's not even costing half what DSS's extravaganza cost.
I will sort it because I won't allow my son to go without but I'm so fucking pissed at him and the blatant favouritism in that statement.
Maybe if he couldn't afford to pay toward both his children's birthdays then his older son shouldn't have had the big expensive birthday if that's how he thinks. But no obviously not, it's only our son that applies to.