Can bio mum do this?

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Tonight my partner has been honest with BIo mum and told her he took there daughter to my house which she hasn't allowed to do by her rules, there's no court orders or anything. She's not happy now and is saying he has to stay at hers until she can trust him again and will FaceTime him randomly when he has them overnight.
they was going through mediation but she backed down and admitted she couldn't afford it and came to a mutual agreement but now she's changed her mind yet again. She also took him to CMS which you know, she is within her right to do.
Mediation has said to SO because he has PR he can do what he wants with the kids and meet who he wants (aslong as it don't cause danger).
im just sick of the dramas now, I'm so close to ending this crap. I said until this crap is sorted I'm not being part of this.

*days later

I clicked into this thread thinking it was a story about adoption

😂😂 No you didn't.

Mum and dad's girlfriend is perfectly easy to understand and accurate. No need for any extras.

Wow people get so enraged here by someone’s terminology in a thread!!

Geez you people need to get out more and spend less of it on MN instead of bullying someone for using a phrase. She probably didn’t know it would cause such offence. It’s was her way of telling her story. I’m sure she doesn’t go around saying to the kids “ oh your biological mum”

Wind your necks in people!! Who who’d have thought using the term “bio mum” would cause people to be come so self righteous and combust 😂😂😂

So instead of giving the OP actual advice people spend time going on about terminology. Really is there any need after one person has said it??

As for people saying that she is the mother and her feelings should be taken into account because they’re her children and poor woman etc etc etc, why is her position any more deserving than the dad’s?

The child is his too, he has a new partner, they have a child together, and still people think that the mother is within her rights to stop him taking his child to his partner’s house? What rubbish.

Unless there are actual safeguarding issues/concerns here the mother is completely out of order. And if they are unable to resolve this through mediation I would be inclined to advise him to go to court to get a proper contact schedule put in place...

Oh and I am a (bio) mum, and not a stepmom