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what would you say........

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WSM123 · 10/02/2016 03:20

I saw this on another forum and it was brilliant, so I decided to blatantly steal it. Some was hilarious, some was brutal but all a great vent no judgement
What would you love to say to your step kids but cant in real life??
I would say to SS7, when you get caught out in a lie, laughing and saying I was joking doesn't make it cute, its still a lie.

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IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster · 11/02/2016 11:58

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CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 12:21

I just didn't think it mattered because they will all get their turn to have some sweets from their friend at some point.

IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster · 11/02/2016 12:26

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Cleensheetsandbedding · 11/02/2016 12:31

Your tone when you speak about your/to dsd speaks volumes cant

You didn't ask her to pipe down - you told her to 'just shut up and eat it' then when on to say that you hoped she dropped it.

That's angry and spiteful

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 12:40

I know but children have to realise that not everything is about them all the time. When they have different friendships with people and are different classes at school or they are at different schools, things like this happen. Which is fine.
They get invited to parties where siblings aren't invited. What do you think about that?

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 12:42

Pipe down. Shut up. Same thing.

I didn't hope she dropped it at actually. I said it would have served her right. I did warn her that she might have dropped it by waving it around in her brother's face.

IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster · 11/02/2016 14:13

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CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 15:04

Oh my god you'd think I said something absolutely terrible to her. I've told my own children to shut up in the past as well.
Sometimes you just need to say it like that.

IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster · 11/02/2016 15:08

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CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 15:12

What because quite frequently I'm tired and not always in a happy mood? Yeah my interactions aren't going to bob on I must admit.

wannabestressfree · 11/02/2016 16:31

That comment though put together with your other little stories about your dsd eg the uniform show us all we need to know about your feelings toward your dsd. Your unpleasantness and resentment seeps into every post. You are so easy to spot name change or not.

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 16:48

Once again people have got me all wrong just like they did last year. I actually felt a lot better whilst I had a break from here. This place is absolutely toxic. You're all toxic. Not to mention paranoid, have a huge axe to grind, very good at twisting things etc etc...

wannabestressfree · 11/02/2016 17:02

Yes....... all wrong Wink

Cleensheetsandbedding · 11/02/2016 17:06

Yep were all wrong ......

gooseberryroolz · 11/02/2016 17:09

This place is absolutely toxic. You're all toxic. Not to mention paranoid, have a huge axe to grind, very good at twisting things etc etc...

Not you; ALL of us. Okay, got it Smile

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 17:10

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Cleensheetsandbedding · 11/02/2016 17:15

Tbf cant if you genuinly can't see what we can all see then maybe you can't because your like this with everyone. Maybe it's just your personality and if I was you I'd be checking to see if I was toxic to my whole family. There are tests you can on line you know Wink

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 17:15

;) ooooh it looks like I hit a nerve there.

Not nice when people make unfair judgements about you is it?

LilacSpunkMonkey · 11/02/2016 17:18

I recognise you too and remember your old name.

I don't post on this board very often but your posts about your SD are always full of venom and incredibly upsetting to think there's a child being hated by an adult somewhere.

Last time I posted to you I got deleted. For saying exactly what everyone here is saying now.

Because you had people falling for your 'poor me' shtick.

That poor little girl.

gooseberryroolz · 11/02/2016 17:19

Hit a nerve by swearing petulantly at everyone? I doubt it.

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 17:21

You can all see naff all Cleen.
Everyone around me would come to a very different conclusion than you. Like I said, how the fuck do all of you know best?

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 17:22

I think you're all enjoying this secretly. I really do.

LilacSpunkMonkey · 11/02/2016 17:24

There's nothing enjoyable about reading about a child who is subjected to spite and hatred.

It's not enjoyable, it's bloody sad.

CantWaitForWarmWeather · 11/02/2016 17:27

No, You're enjoying it. You love having the chance to vent your pented up frustrations and bitterness.

All because I didn't like dsd waving a cake in her brother's face and trying to goad him. You've twisted everything out of proportion.

LilacSpunkMonkey · 11/02/2016 17:29

I'm sad about the way you treat your SD because I'm frustrated and bitter?

How does that even make sense?

What is it I'm frustrated and bitter about exactly?