BTW I have decided that dp is an unsupportive pig and I am not going to even bother telling him about my next interview. I told him that I had an interview and he just said "have you?" then went on to talk about big brother, and I was left thinking "big brother? FFS!!! Where is the support, the interest in what is going on in my life, big brother is more important to him" 
I tried to tell him about a colleague who has huge problems with negativity/depression and low self esteem. I have been talking to him about it for a while and I think I have been able to give him some life changing advice. He really has taken on board what I have said to him and is making huge steps forward to change his life for the better. I am so pleased for him and I feel grateful that I have been able to make a difference in his life. Dp's reaction? He took the P out of me, and I was left feeling belittled and I felt that he thought I was 'up my own @rse' about it, I wasn't I was just chuffed for the bloke.
I told him last night that I would love to have a dp that was supportive etc and I might as well be single, I know I shouldn't have done it but it was said infront of dss because I couldn't bite my tongue. Dss's reaction "Dad, I've got to agree with squirrel, she is really trying hard and you don't say anything positive or supportive to her".
Dp went very quiet, I went to bed early last night in the hope of getting some sleep, dp came in and started snoring, so I have been up half the night listening to him. In the end I shouted at him to shut up and go and sleep in dsd's bedroom (we didn't have her last night), he went but I was so angry I couldn't go back to sleep. I told him this morning that he was an inconsiderate pig and he should have slept in dsd's bedroom last night all night and not disturbed me at all, he knows I have an interview today! PIG! PIG! PIG!
And, the cheeky b@st@rd had the cheek to try to erm, 'get a bit intimate this morning' told him to go have a w@nk! 
End of rant!!!!! 