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Tell Endsleigh Insurance what you are most looking forward to when your DC go to uni - £300 voucher to be won! NOW CLOSED

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EllieMumsnet · 31/07/2017 10:36

The summer holidays are finally here and many parents are soon to find out where their DCs may be heading off to university. For teenagers and parents alike, this can be very daunting time. However, it’s also a time some parents may have secretly longed for…freedom is on the horizon!

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Tell Endsleigh Insurance what you are most looking forward to when your DC go to uni - £300 voucher to be won! NOW CLOSED
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robinia · 07/08/2017 14:47

I'm looking forward to going to the fridge or food cupboard for something and it still being there.
Apart from that, nothing. I'll miss him Sad

sweir1 · 07/08/2017 20:27

I'm looking forward to the fridge staying full a bit longer

OnyK · 07/08/2017 21:02

Dd will be going to uni next month (results permitting!). I'm looking forward to being able to use the bathroom when I want to and not having to search for my missing tweezers/scissors/mascara etc!

farhanac · 07/08/2017 21:18

Looking forward to enjoying the silence

rhinosuze · 07/08/2017 21:32

Although she is only 4 I'll be looking forward to.a tidy house and a lie in!!! But also look forward to seeing what she will do and where uni will take her

kkhimji · 07/08/2017 23:09

looking forward to some relaxing time haha

Alexandra87 · 08/08/2017 06:17

Long way off for me but it will definitely be not having to do so much washing and ironing!

Pmliu · 08/08/2017 09:31

I will be looking forward to more quality time to concentrate on me and my husband, we got a very long time before our little ones go to university, they are only 4, 2 and 1 years old. When we went to university we had a fantastic time and it was actually where me and my husband met.

LadyinCement · 08/08/2017 09:57

Sorry - I know people want to win the £300 but why are people posting when their dcs are only 1 year old? Angry Not on.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 08/08/2017 10:03

To all the parents of littlies, you'll be getting your lie ins long before they go off to uni. You might not be able to get to bed early, but that's a whole different ball game Grin You'll also be able to get time with your dp, go out to the pub etc etc. If your teen is like my teen, the rest of the house will be tidy (apart from the shoe pile in the hall) because they don't really venture out of their rooms.

Don't wish your lives away. You blink and they are about to go off to university and you have no idea where the time went.

MaMisled · 08/08/2017 10:45

I'm putting on a cheery, positive and, obviously, supportive front but I'm dreading it! I love her company, she's a little ray of sunshine and we chat for hours.

I know she'll love uni life though and, as I cultivated these wings of hers, I shall take pride and pleasure in watching her fly.

A benefit to her going? A winter of stews, casseroles and pies, which she hates!

MrsGotobed · 08/08/2017 14:00

I'm looking forward to hearing about college life these days and to see how it compares to when I was at uni years ago. I'm looking forward to seeing DD (hopefully) flourish into an independent young woman.

At home I'm looking forward to seeing DS's excitement as he gets to move into the bigger bedroom that his sister will be vacating, choose the decor and a new bed . He's always felt hard done by in having the smallest room

leanneth · 08/08/2017 16:02

When they have all gone to university, I'm looking forward to visiting them! Wherever they may be! (It's years away for us- only very small at the moment!)

Snapespeare · 08/08/2017 16:07

I'm looking forwards to seeing them blossom into independent people, especially DS1 who is 19 and has aspergers , associated anxiety and depression & ADHD- he finds social interaction very difficult, but has come such a long way from school refusal and fighting the local authority for any educational provision at all. He's got a conditional acceptance to our local uni, so I can help with public transport at first and I see this as a step on the road to being a grown up. He's got a plan B for the local college for an access to HE course, which would also be great. I do have worries that I'm trying to bury. I'm worried about how busy places will be, but have spoken to disability officers about a quiet place for him to retreat to. I'm also worried about other people and drugs/alcohol because he's on meds, but he's reasonable sensible, even if his filter is a bit squewif.

because he's staying at home from necessity, I can put off the utter desolation I felt when his older sister left home to move 500+ miles away for college. Part of me wants him to leave, at the moment more of me wants him to stay, but I need to work on that. As a single parent, I think it's slightly different to children leaving home and being alone with a partner - that has its own difficulties. Further down the line, I will look forwards to my treats being left alone, not taking things from the fridge and finding them empty. The loo seat always being down. :-)

Pinklady301 · 08/08/2017 16:36

I had the best time at University myself but my biggest regret is not working hard enough, not understanding the significance of a degree and all it can bring. I was quite immature.
So with my DD, when it is her turn, I will want her to have the best time socially but also work hard.
When the time comes I know I will worry but I will be so proud as she embarks on this adventure.
As others have said, the reduction in many costs will be a big plus!!

mbb1 · 08/08/2017 16:42

Having a bit of peace & quiet

Gazelda · 08/08/2017 18:38

We've got about 9 years to go until this will affect us, but I think we are looking forward to travelling and broadening our horizons a bit. I'll probably volunteer more, maybe join Rock Choir and go to evening classes.

LittleHo · 08/08/2017 21:55

Looking forward to opening the ice cream tub (usually I find it empty).

fivekidsonemum · 08/08/2017 22:32

When my 5 kids are off to Uni I can't wait to have A Empty Washing Machine !! With 5 kids it's non stop washing = whether that's clothes, dishes or actually washing them, it never ends 24/7 ! Hmm

buckley1983 · 08/08/2017 23:21

We're a loooong way of this yet - but I am looking forward to late-night cinema trips, lazy mornings & quiet weekends!
In terms of what I look forward to for my son - it'll be great to see what path he chooses & also to see if he puts the excellent budgeting skills I plan to teach him into practice!!

Chathampocket · 08/08/2017 23:59

My eldest DC has just finished his first year at a far flung uni. The summer holidays are LONG (just over 3 months) and whilst we've loved having him home we are definitely looking forward to the peace and quiet come October (and the lower food bills!)

juju3 · 09/08/2017 11:24

Out of sight - out of mind - bringing hopefully some peace and quiet - then wow long uni holidays

Hairq · 09/08/2017 12:09

Sighhhhhh, going out whenever I like and being able to go on holiday during term time. Bliss.

user1497380832 · 09/08/2017 13:37

When my daughter goes to uni I'll be waiting in anticipation for every time I'm allowed to come up and visit her. I will miss her so much.

KarenCBC · 09/08/2017 15:34

Its still a LOOOOONG way off but I'm hoping we'll still feel young enough to go travelling again. I'm hoping that when the kids are older we'll be able to travel with them in school holidays (I mean travelling as opposed to going on holiday) but when they're at uni and beyond we can hopefully go away for a month or two at a time.....