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AIBU to object to being told how I should think

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2shoes · 19/09/2008 11:04

that I should not be joyful or positive about dd and her disabilitie, that I should post doom and gloom, as if I don't I am only showing a biased veiw.
I don't seem to be allowed to post that my life is good, that I am happy and dd is a pleasure.

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sarah293 · 20/09/2008 15:26

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2shoes · 20/09/2008 16:19

I have taken offence at what you have said rivenwitheshortname how dare eidsvold win, who can say her child is the more feared child, if you both read my post dated the 12th of nevermy child has already won.
I think you are letting your personal expierence of having a feared child and talking pirate cloud your judgement.

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2shoes · 20/09/2008 17:53

By riven on Sat 20-Sep-08 16:35:19
you are not listening to what I'm saying so I'll quote back to you from once in a blue moon .
'I am 2shoes and I am totally wrong'
to make my point.
And of course I'm right because I once saw a feared child across a crowded room.

you did not read my posts, please do, you will see that I am right as I am always am right, therefore you should know that what I say is right, as it always is . and I once knew someone who's great aunts uncles, son, sisters, husbands, freinds, daughters, teachers, sister had a feared child, so I know everything and am an expert.

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eidsvold · 20/09/2008 20:34

oops we have an event that may show dd1 is not so feared now that people know her. She has been invited to a fairy birthday party from a little girl in her mainstream Prep class.

I no longer win - my sad little life is no even sadder that I cannot win that situation.

Actually I still win - cause I was there antenatally as well as post natally and I support new parents of little wee charmers born with ds so ner ner ner So I win on that count too!! Cause I have the not so personal stories too.

you will bow at my feet in awe

coppertop · 20/09/2008 20:40

A party?

I hope you will be wearing this when you dare to venture out.

siblingrivalry · 20/09/2008 20:47

That's 2 nights on the trot you ladies have made me lol -love the photo link coppertop

coppertop · 20/09/2008 20:50

Laughing is strictly forbidden.

It's a slippery slope I tell you. One minute you're laughing. The next minute you'll be thinking you can have a life.

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2shoes · 20/09/2008 20:52

eidsvold this is no good, you are still posting happy things. these are your own personal happy things, there are other people who are not happy as they have not been invited to a fairy party. so I thionk you are being unfair to the non fairy party goers,
and as for people lol at this thread, how dare you lol and be happy, it breaks all the rules.

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2shoes · 20/09/2008 20:53

coppertop did you not read the post I posted after your post, I said that after you, did you not hear me.

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coppertop · 20/09/2008 20:59

I was so busy weeping and wailing that I couldn't read your post through all my tears, 2shoes.

Didn't I tell you that back on page 205,143?

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2shoes · 20/09/2008 21:24

wipe your tears on your burden, I wrote on page 5555555555555 that that is what you have to do.

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siblingrivalry · 20/09/2008 21:28

I am chastened....

deeeja · 20/09/2008 22:16

Oh my dear God, Coppertop, I wear something similar to that everyday, but without the fancy veil. Is that why medical folk don't take me seriously, because I look like a party-going person?

eidsvold · 21/09/2008 09:10

actually I just remembered not only is dd1 going to the fairy party - her friend who also attends mainstream school and has sn has been invited and is going. Heaven forbid - two of us in one place - shall email my friend.

Coppertop - that is far too frivolous - what on earth where you thinking.....

far more appropriate for our level of mourning and despair

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2shoes · 21/09/2008 09:52

Look I know more that all of you according to eminent people, I live in a HA house which means I must be scum and a drug dealer, also I have a more feared child than you. if you check the paper I wrote, entitled"how to live in a HA house and have a feared child" which was published in the "you think you know everything but you are wrong" magazine date 6/6/06 you will see this.

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2shoes · 21/09/2008 11:08

my gp actually really does know his dc has the "feared" DS. he is a lovely man who nearly cries when dd has her flu jab

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2shoes · 21/09/2008 11:37

dd's school nurse is like that. talk about OTT, if she gets a tummy ache in maths, they all cluck arround, untill I point out she is skiving

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2shoes · 21/09/2008 12:03

Oh dear I forgot, of course they should wrap her in cotton wool(sterilized) and take her to A&e

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eidsvold · 21/09/2008 12:06

2shoes that is too funny - how dare a child with sn use that as an excuse to get out of anything.

I had someone tell me how dd1 waits until there is just the classroom teacher and that teacher is distracted to start going for a wander. How cheeky! I replied just cause she has an intellectual impairment does not make her stupid!! It shocked me that this person thought it was a little odd that dd1 would chose to go that time. Like you would want to go when your TA is there and can get you and make you do work. d'uh!