Yes you can send it to whoever you need to.. Please bare in mind most of this is my personal and professional opinion combined but it isn't set in stone, just describers that help along with all other evidence.. Most of what I've written here for smi is to satisfy the point of " severe behavioural issues"
And for VUW it's for describers for how and why the child is virtually unable to walk and what behaviour the child displays in real world situations..
It's basically just to explain that most of the time you need to expand on issues and not just state a one line fact with professional evidence to back up your fact..
Example ( not relevant to HRM) but to explain night need some claimants will write my child gets up 4 times a night for an hour and here the prescription for melatonin to back that up.
The above is not enough as it doesn't contain descriptive behaviour..
So you would say give my child melatonin at 9pm this sometimes helps my child fall asleep but my child wakes after an hour and gets up I have to put my child back to bed, I then go to bed at 11pm my child wakes again at 2am because said child is anxious to nervous or worried and I have to sit with my child for 30 minutes my child then wakes again at 5am and wakes his / her brother makes noise is unable to fall back to sleep as the child is dysregulated jumping around and lashing out I manage to get my child back to sleep at 5.30am but my child wakes again at 7am so we just get up for the day.. My child has constant interruptions through the night needing reassurance, prompting, physically putting back to bed, soothing ect ect..
You see the difference between the first and second examples of night needs..
Ones basic but backed by prescription the second is descriptive
It's the descriptives the DM looks for and time it takes the adult.
Same applies for smi and the criteria..
Give descriptives of each point with real world situations and make sure your evidence from professionals is also descriptive..
Although the DMs will take any positive language written by professionals and use it as a way to decline even with other evidence stacked against it..
In your case using a child that's able to read as a reason to decline especially on the mobility side is wild, especially if the evidence also suggest the child is way behind peers at age related level reading and if they've used that to say the child didn't meet the criteria for impaired intelligence is even more wild because a child may well be able to read but can not use their intelligence in real world situations when it comes to safety and applying that intelligence or once dysregulated all sense and intelligence goes out the window due to overwhelm and panic..
This all boils down to the DMs not being medically trained or trained in disabilities.. They have to refer medical questions to the dwp health care professionals.. I mean it's good they don't do medicals on children as that would be wrong and intrusive to the child and parents but we just have to remember we aren't here to prove the child has a disability we are here to prove the care the child needs and the time it takes and any children who are severely mentally impaired the DMs need the describers satisfied..
I think we all need a degree in filling in forms to even get the correct awards. Which is abserd..
All everyone can do is try their best and if they don't award correct follow the process of MR and tribunal and reiterate that you feel they haven't understood or they've overlooked and not taken into account the actual care and mobility needs of the child and the time it takes the parents to do or overcome certain things and situations for the child...
Good luck and keep us all updated on your progress..
Keep fighting for the child 🤞🏼🫶