Agh. The wait. It truly is horrible. I think this is all now affecting my mental health. 2 weeks with a DM, still nothing. Then, 7 weeks waiting for CA and still nothing, when I was told it would be a maximum of 6 weeks and most people get it within 3 weeks.
Meanwhile., my other child's claim was dealt with a lot quicker and I didn't ring a single time, I just got a text saying we had been awarded, then money then letter. Why such a difference?
The CA is bothering me even more. Because there is no reason why they have to hold this money. I am entitled to it and they need to backdate to September. Meanwhile struggling and worrying about money. Carers are so forgotten. I used to work full time. I obviously can't now. What is the delay?
I think I am just going to give up. Not call, not chase, not ask for MR if denied and just keep spending our days with the bare minimum and keep selling stuff in the house to pay for all the stuff the pediatrician has said we need to buy or replace for their health.
At least I won't wake up every morning having my hopes crushed and tears in my eyes.
Good luck to all. I remember when I was awarded for my other child and the relief and validation that meant. I will just remember that and hope you get what you deserve.