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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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DutchOma · 16/02/2012 07:01

Happy five month birthday Bea. Have a happy day.

BB3 · 16/02/2012 08:33

Oh yay, happy 5 month birthday beautiful bea!

cupofteaplease · 16/02/2012 09:32

Thank you Smile Can't believe she is 5 months old, what a gift!!

I'm hoping she'll smile for me today, she hasn't done it since Sunday, the little tease!

We've just started her on her milk, let's hope she tolerates it...

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MamaMaiasaura · 16/02/2012 09:41

Wow 5 months already SmileI hope she gives you a smile today. Sorry you are back in hospital but good she is clinically well. Btw you are not a bitch, just human and entirely reasonable not to feel congratulatory for the pregnant friend. Hope you are all home soon xx

youarekidding · 16/02/2012 09:55

5 months Grin Happy month day.

Go Bea. And yes she is a gift. She's your gift cup and a gift to us all to remember how precious life is.

CavemanDave · 16/02/2012 11:31

Thinking of you all cup x

shazian · 16/02/2012 11:47

aww hope you get a smile today, have a happy day Bea & mummy, hope your both home from hospital soon xx

1fab · 16/02/2012 12:17

Happy 5 months birthday Grin.

Scheherezade · 16/02/2012 12:59

They're growing up fast aren't they :) seems so ling ago you had her! She's such a star, and you're doing fab
X

fhdl34 · 16/02/2012 13:09

Wow 5 months already, that's gone so quick, I remember your post saying the consultant had said you weren't going back to work!
I'm sure this blip is a temporary one and you're back at home now. Fingers crossed for another smile from Bea today x

cupofteaplease · 16/02/2012 14:05

Family portrait added Smile

Dh has just rung to tell me that a letter from the geneticist has arrived. Apparently they have found that dh carries the alteration that was found in Beatrice so they are going to carry out an Array CGH on the DNA they have from Beatrice. Can anyone shed any light on what this means please??

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NaughtyMrChicken · 16/02/2012 14:07

Beautiful picture Smile

Can't help with DNA stuff I'm afraid

AitchTwoOhOneTwo · 16/02/2012 14:12

LOVELY photo, cup. happy 5 months birthday to bea as well.

ValEdictory · 16/02/2012 14:17

Aw, lovely family photo, cup

Beatrice must be aware of all the cuddly, loving vibes from you, dh and her sisters - must make her feel all loved and secure. She really is a little cherub. Smile

Francagoestohollywood · 16/02/2012 14:20

Lovely Smile

1fab · 16/02/2012 14:29

I can't help with tests but would advise you to ring the ante-natal results helpline. They were wonderful when we had difficult questions when I was expecting DC4 and they may be able to point you in the direction of help if they are only advisers for expectant women.

TheNinjaGooseIsOnAMission · 16/02/2012 14:30

cup, there's a good leaflet on cgh here it's basically looking at all Bea's chromosomes in minute detail to find any differences. It can't pick up everything but is the most detailed test available right now. Unique is a really good site for all thing genetic if you manage to get 5 minutes to have a look Smile

DottyDot · 16/02/2012 14:37

Happy 5 months!! Here's to lots more smiling and the photo you've put up is lovely - you all look so gorgeous! Smile

beatofthedrum · 16/02/2012 16:10

Beautiful photo! Really smiley family shot x

tooloudhere · 16/02/2012 16:12

Happy birthday Bea 5 months wow.

Genetics may have thought the alteration they found may have been the cause of her probs but as you dh has it too they will be more likely to put it down as an inherited blip as he doesnt have the same problems. Next step is to do the full array on her DNA looking for differences in more detail. I am no expert on this but that is my understanding.

How are you getting on with the feeding pump, I know you were worried about it. Are you finding it ok to get out and about with? I hope they have sorted you out with a good portable solution to make it easier.

X

ohmeohmy · 16/02/2012 16:40

Happy birthday Bea. Gorgeous pic.

JugglingWithTangentialOranges · 16/02/2012 17:10

Hi cup

First thing I wanted to do when I got home to my computer and Mumsnet is to check out the Teaset !

Yey ! New piccies ! Smile

No wonder Bea has learnt to smile with those two smiley big sisters of hers ! And did you all see in the Teaset family pic - Bea is looking over her shoulder to check out her Mummy is there - a girl who knows where her best interests lie !

Carrotcakeisace · 16/02/2012 18:34

Fab family portrait, you are all looking gorgeous and Happy five months, Bea

I hope Bea tolerated her milk and you are back at home.

Whatevertheweather · 16/02/2012 18:39

Love the family portrait Cup Smile Gorgeous

BB3 · 16/02/2012 19:18

Lovely, lovely photo of the teaset x

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