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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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letsblowthistacostand · 12/02/2012 20:29

So amazing!

AitchTwoOhOneTwo · 12/02/2012 20:53

Grin back.

Whatevertheweather · 12/02/2012 20:59

Oh Bea you clever clever girl Grin

DottyDot · 12/02/2012 21:22

Grin Awww - she smiled!!! Grin Grin That's just wonderful - am so so Grin for you xxxx

beatofthedrum · 12/02/2012 21:52

That is beautiful news, Cup.

Thumbwitch · 12/02/2012 22:33

Fantastic news! Hurrah for Bea! Very Grin for you here too (albeit with suspiciously damp eyes)

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(bunting)

fairimum · 12/02/2012 22:55

SO SO SO SO thrilled for you all :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

ledkr · 12/02/2012 23:14

Now that is amazing news,well done little girl.

strictlycomedancingdiva · 12/02/2012 23:25

What a lovely end to the weekend, to read your update Grin

CheshireDing · 13/02/2012 05:02

:) Go Bea with her smile :)

saffronwblue · 13/02/2012 08:25

Gorgeous girl! Huge smile here reading this news. Cup it must have made your heart sing.xx

argghh · 13/02/2012 09:46

Wow, how fantastic, Beautiful Bea smiled - that is just the very best news.

GO bea and Go cup!!!

Much love to you all

trumpton · 13/02/2012 11:43

Bea The Beautiful Beams at Best Mummy < Headlines on Mumsnet News >

CotherMuckingTwistedFunt · 13/02/2012 13:15

My mum and I are in tears here! Well done Bea Grin Grin Grin

whattodoo · 13/02/2012 16:08

Oh Bea, well done! You've made lots of people very, very happy, most importantly your super Mum. Can't wait to see photos.

fhdl34 · 13/02/2012 17:03

That is so fantastic, well done Bea!! What a special little girl you have, she touches so many lives, mine and my DH's included, who often asks how she's doing x

BB3 · 13/02/2012 18:46

I'm on the train home from work, drinking my costa hot chocolate and thinking of bea and her smile xxxxx

slightlycrumpled · 13/02/2012 19:34

How lovely. Grin

Lilithmoon · 13/02/2012 21:46

:) :) :)

mycatsaysach · 13/02/2012 22:57

what a little sweetheart Smile

emmazed · 14/02/2012 08:53

I keep smiling at the thought of her lovely little smile. Great news! Must have been amazing. Xx

NorksAreMessy · 14/02/2012 09:57

:) :o :) :o :) :o :) :o
:) :o :) :o :) :o :) :o

fairimum · 15/02/2012 12:54

How is your half term going??
xx

BB3 · 15/02/2012 15:58

Popping in to say hello and hope you're having a fantastic family-filled half term xx

cupofteaplease · 15/02/2012 18:36

We were having a good half term, took Beatrice to watch the Muppets with her biggest sister. But she's been very sick today and has lost 7oz since last week. So we're back in hospital. Sad our usual ward is full so they've put us on the surgery/oncology ward. Nobody's come to introduce themself yet so it's just Bea and I and I feel a bit lonely. Silly really considering how many times we've been in hospital..

Just found out someone I know is having a baby girl and I'm feeling quite bitte and self-absorbed. I haven't even acknowledged their announcement, what a bitch. Never mind, I'm feeling pissed off today so I'm revelling in my bitchiness.

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