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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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Four4me · 12/02/2012 15:51

Yeah yeah yeah yeah. When you have a sec there is a hoard of sharp elbowed god-mothers waiting for our smiling Bea photo Grin

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 12/02/2012 15:54

Best news I have had all day.

Go BEA!

BaldricksTurnip · 12/02/2012 15:56

Ahhh how lovely :o

AChristmasCarole · 12/02/2012 16:01

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ellie4 · 12/02/2012 16:02

That is the BEST news. I remember you posting a while ago saying you were desperate to see her smile. I'm so glad she has managed this.Grin Grin Grin

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 12/02/2012 16:19
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ExitPursuedByaBear · 12/02/2012 16:26

Way to go Beatrice the Brave.

Now Beatrice the Smiling One.

So, so happy for you Cup.

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Sidge · 12/02/2012 16:41

Fantastic news - bet your heart exploded! Smile

bishboschone · 12/02/2012 16:56

Yay , well done bea :-) Smile

1fab · 12/02/2012 16:57

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What a lovely birthday present I am 40 today

Well done BEATRICE!!!!!!!

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Milliways · 12/02/2012 17:27

Lovely news! Way to go Bea :)

DawnClench · 12/02/2012 17:36

Woohoo, Bea! You sure know how to make Mummy's heart sing, you little cutie!!!

GleamingHeels · 12/02/2012 18:00

Oh, Oh, Oh, Bea SMILED!!!! Oh, Cup, how happy you must be!

Carrotcakeisace · 12/02/2012 18:05

Fantastic news, go Bea x

madoldbird · 12/02/2012 18:26

That just made my weekend!! XX

Northernlurker · 12/02/2012 18:29

Fantastic news - you said she would smile one day and she has. What a little love she is. Smile

scummymummy · 12/02/2012 18:36

How utterly wonderful:)

LittlePebble · 12/02/2012 19:22

Oh cup yet again one of your posts has brought tears to my eyes but so pleased this time they are happy ones. X
Go Beatrice you little star GrinGrin

youarekidding · 12/02/2012 19:33

BEST NEWS Grin
GO BEA. Grin

shazian · 12/02/2012 19:34

Well done Bea, what a little star Grin..... You've made your mummy very proud!

scummymummy · 12/02/2012 19:42

How utterly wonderful:)

GentleOtter · 12/02/2012 19:47

I thought nothing could be cuter than Bea in her 'little pudding' bib but now wait for a smile picture.

Thank you for sharing such a happy post. Smile

KateUnrulyBush · 12/02/2012 19:55

Hurray! :)

BB3 · 12/02/2012 20:03

Bloody Brilliant!!! There you go again Bea,, sending waves of happiness around the virtual mn world with your fantastic achievements!

Cup, I'm so very, very pleased for you!

Here's to a super smiley Sunday xxxx

Love and hugs x

Bobloblaw · 12/02/2012 20:23

Aww, you just made my weekend :) that's the most fantastic news, you are a super star Bea x

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