some interesting posts here.
I agree, justa, that there are posters here with children with ASD who do not htink ABA is right for them.
I am not sure that there are many of those who have had negative experiences with ABA though.
THere have been posts about bad tutors/bad programmes. But I have not seen anyone post who has given an ABA programme a good go, and found that the outcome was not worth it.
I can understand why people would choose not to use ABA, but I don't thik that those posters should feel they cannot post on a thread like this. neither, of course, should any posters who have had that experience of running an ABA programme, but not gaining enough from it.
your earlier post: re the mum who had spent years on ABA, and the gains were minimal. hmm. it might just be me, but it does sound rather as though you are placing a value on what amount of skills would make it "worth it" - surely htis is a subjective thing? I have had a child who can do nothing. and I really mean nothing. no communicaiton. no interest in anythign. dd1 would sit and scratch the walls until her fingers bled - she neither noticed nor cared. and carried on. it was all she did. she was 18 months old. no running around. no laughing. certainly no playing. she was unable to hold a spoon to feed herself or hold her cup. she could barely pick up a piece of toast. if you gave her a toy, she would hold it until her grip gave way, then not notice/care if it fell. there really was not much there at all.
if I had started ABA at that point, my goal wold have been eg holding a spoon. nt eating, or scooping food. but taking a ready loaded spoon and holding it while I guided it/helped her get it to her mouth. this was one of my goals, actually, but I wasn't on a formal programme at the time.
it took her a year to learn that. was it worth it? absolutely. did she care? not really. but it made a difference to me, and therefore to her too (happy mum, happy child, yadda, yadda). the stress of that time was more wrapped up in the fact that everyone around me (including family) were tellign me it was not "worth" spending so much time doing what I was doing - that dd1 woudln't manage it, or that it would drive me crazy. it nearly did, but that woudl not have been so if I had had some support.
I would have carried on with ABA if the results for dd1 remained so small. totally. because every step is a step worth taking.
you cannot place that kind of a judgement on whether the programme was worth it/where the line is between cost and value - as Star says, every person has the right to be/do the best they can be.