Haven't posted for a while as work has been mental and I've been waiting for the draft ehcp..
Which, after a phone call today, was emailed to me... except it wasn't. It's not attached and the caseworker has gone home for the day.
I'm so frustrated! I have two child free days this Saturday and Sunday and no other time alone in the next two weekends and I have full bloody teaching days for the last two weeks of term with so much actual work to do, I was planning on getting at least the first bit done of reading through it and checking it against the EP reports etc done tomorrow...argh!
When I spoke to the caseworker I told her I had no way of naming a preferred school as there just aren't any, as no one can meet the need of her not being able to leave the house.
She said I could then instead cost up a full package for a personal budget to put in section J and then send that back within the two weeks.
I guess I can start doing that now, from the ep report..until I get the actual draft.
I'll obviously ask them to restart the 15 days from Monday when I actually get it.
So... personal budget costings and providers...I'm thinking the following;
I think UK virtual school was the preferred option for DD, it's only three weeks on, one week off all year round, with august and December as holiday, and the option of just doing video lessons or online live and video, plus it had small groups, no more than 10, and a few club type live lessons too, and interest based lessons. The founder seemed very knowledgeable about interest led education and DD liked the sound of it. They'll offer maths, English, a language and a few other interest based courses with a full subscription.
Then I need to add other things. The EP report said small group support for GCSE subjects, weekly therapy, and social skills/communication work. A few other things but these were school based. It stated either part time or online learning with whatever she could manage, gradual very slow introduction of different things.
She bakes, does guitar lessons, does arts and crafts, enjoys cooking.
So could I put in there a cake decorating course subscription, twice weekly guitar lessons, a craft subscription box?
Then a weekly animal therapy session?
Physio sessions too, for her HSD? That was recommended in the reports. No idea if it's in the plan yet if course.
Thing is I think it's unlikely she could attend therapy or see any new adults, but the online school could be done very gradually, video lessons to begin with, if I got a subscription box of some kind, or cookery box, she'd enjoy the novelty of that, and it's life skills too. I think she may well be able to engage with that, she likes following instructions.
I guess I ask for the provision and if she's not able to attend or engage with all of it then that gets reviewed annually?
Do I put in there costings for taking two igcses, with the associated costs, like exam fees and textbooks etc?
I'm under no illusion that I'll actually get any of this without appealing of course but I need to put in the ideal don't I?
I really need to get the provision started with costings this weekend as I've just got so little time now to myself. I can't research anything with her around as we are in the 'cling to mum like glue' stage and she just watches everything I do, until she's finally asleep. I don't get any privacy, if I go to my room to make a phone call I have to literally lock the door and talk in a whisper or she listens.
I'm so frustrated that I don't actually have the draft, I can't believe the caseworker, what an idiot!