My DD (10) is being assessed for EHCP. The council refused to assess (despite her already being diagnosed with ADHD, ASD, hypermobility and vision problems following eye surgery).
School have been supportive throughout and they are going above and beyond to keep her engaged in education.
She's about to go into year 6 though.
I took the LA to the tribunal and won.
They must produce the plan by 4th August. I think they probably will (they've stuck to deadlines so far...ish...). But I've got all the IPSEA complaint letter templates primed!
The hardest thing about the whole process is that no-one else in my life understands it or what it's like to spend all your free time essentially begging people to document the deficits your child has.
It is also a hard realisation that no-one cares much about your child's education except you.
I am also a teacher so I feel sad on behalf of the SEN DC I teach as I am told little about their needs (I spent a whole day doing DofE with one recently...I don't even know what her EHCP says...)
Join me if you are also grimly trekking through the EHCP jungle!!