PlentyOfSpartacus here,
Transwomen are male
Penis is male
Males do not belong in female only spaces
Lesbians are attracted to women
Women are adult human females
It is not possible to change sex
Gender is a socially constructed heirarchy with women at the bottom
Gender is a set of tools for oppressing women on the basis of our biology
To call women 'cis' implies that we are A-OK with that oppression
I am happy to use a trans person's chosen pronouns when they are not threatening women's safety and hard-won rights. It's a courtesy, extended because I know there are some people for whom becoming trans is the only way of finding some sort of peace with life and they wish no harm to anyone.
Sometimes though, it is necessary to drop that courtesy. Women's rights and safety are threatened by the transactivist agenda and we need accurate language to describe and counter that threat. Where necessary I will refer to transwomen as 'he' and 'his', e.g:
Davina Ayrton is male and raped a child with his penis
Tara Hudson is male and he does not belong in a women's prison
Stephonknee is male and his fetishistic behaviour is dangerous and disturbing
Ada Wells is male and his agenda reeks of male privilege and misogyny, homophobia and antisemitism
None of the above statements are 'accidental slip ups' they are quite deliberate.
None are 'malicious' they are just necessary if we are to talk about these issues at all.
And hell yes I am 'transphobic' because frankly the transactivist agenda is scary as fuck.