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Do you think it's a good idea to have a non-public, password-protected area for special needs parents to vent?

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JustineMumsnet · 17/10/2006 08:26

Following on for the discussion on this thread we'd like to know your thoughts.
For a little while now some of our special needs parents have said they don't feel Mumsnet is working for them in certain situations when they need to vent/rant/talk honestly about their situations and we've been thinking about whether there's anything structurally we can do to help. We feel very strongly that the special needs boards are a core part of Mumsnet and indeed for most of the last six years have been an exemplar of what we're all about - a place where parents can gain support and tap the experience of others to make their lives' easier. That said, we do understand that special needs parents are under extraordinary pressure and therefore more than most could do with a bit of privacy to vent when needed.
One idea that has been raised is a private, password-protected area for special needs parents on Mumsnet. This area would not be automatically visible to all but those who wanted to join could do so - though obviously you wouldn't have to join to discuss special needs - the existing public boards would remain. Clearly this is a break from the norm for Mumsnet and in some ways it feels an anathema because as we all know Mumsnet is an open forum and free access to all who need it is one of our underlying principles. But it's clear the current format is not working for many and if it's not helpful then we need to change things. We've thought about it a lot and feel it could be worth a try.
So what do you think? Special needs crowd, would this work for you do you think? Would you use it? NT parents how do you feel about it? Is it worth a go?
Let us know...
Thanks,
Mumsnet Towers

OP posts:
Blossomhowl · 17/10/2006 21:27

I do not want a password protected sn part of mn actually.

TheDaVinciCod · 17/10/2006 21:27

i dont care tbh

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:29

Justine asked for NT mums opinions. This will be a fundamental change to the way the site is run and yes I do feel strongly about it.

This has been going on for months...and quite frankly its boring and stupid. Most NT parents feel quite hurt and offended by the idea of a private board but at the same time don't pretend to know how SN mums feel - so if you want it, have it.

Quite frankly I am sorry I ever bothered to chat to anyone in the SN section how stupid of me. Off you go.

GhoulsToo · 17/10/2006 21:30

were there any concerns mooted about this idea being divisive?

Socci · 17/10/2006 21:31

Message withdrawn

MegaLegs · 17/10/2006 21:34

Actually I think the seperate area has pretty much been vetoed by most anyway. Enid - where are all these hurt mum's of nt children?

Blossomhowl · 17/10/2006 21:34

Get lost.

Do not call me a sn mum either.

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:35

too bloody afraid to post I should think

if the idea has been vetoed then what the feck are we all talkign about?

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:35

justine started it

TheDaVinciCod · 17/10/2006 21:36

enid come wiht me to your own password protected frocum
i have meailed you
do oyu never check it fgs

MegaLegs · 17/10/2006 21:38

Read this thread. Many seem to think a seperate sn area would not work and that another approach would be better. I don't understand why you've come steaming on to this thread, the idea was to solve a problem but you just seem to be proving the point that their is some insensitivity towards the sn boards

Calista · 17/10/2006 21:38

Enid you are beginning to sound like www the other day. If that's 'your opinion' (great post btw from Bink @10.00am today) then why bother to carry on commenting and making this thread v. unpleasant?

BTW, close the door on the way out www, there's a love.

TheDaVinciCod · 17/10/2006 21:39

am sad at the www thing
shes been on here years

FrannyandZooey · 17/10/2006 21:40

I think it could well be divisive

I am not sure what it will achieve, as the SN posters already have another private place they go to post, don't they? I don't understand how a further private SN area will avoid the problems that people have reported.

However if people on the whole want the separate area I agree with Enid, it would be better if a decision is made quickly and changes implemented if necessary. This is just causing a lot of bad feeling and us and them sentiments.

MegaLegs · 17/10/2006 21:41

She (www)made me angry on here the other night but reading between the lines of some of her posts made me wonder if she was ok.

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:42

Justine ASKED for people's opinions in the OP

and an opinion is just that - an opinion

one is as valid as another blah blah blah (there really needs to be an acronym for that)

good if everyone thinks a separate area is a pants idea then I am in agreement

TheDaVinciCod · 17/10/2006 21:42

i htought hte idea of sn threads not being on active convos was good

Calista · 17/10/2006 21:42

Some of those who've 'been here years' are the ones who think they can post what they please and constantly push others out. They get away with far too much imo. I have also been here years (more than 3, but under other names). Doesn't give me free rein to say what I want to who I want with no repercussions.

TheDaVinciCod · 17/10/2006 21:43

i know but really fro old times sake i htink we can find it in us to let poepl have what oyu may consider off days

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:43

you seem to say exactly what you feel like calista

if you are actually holding back god help us

MegaLegs · 17/10/2006 21:44

Fine Enid - but just look back at your posts - they are all so angry - loads of capital letters. You just kind of burst in and started yelling at us.

Blossomhowl · 17/10/2006 21:45

Exactly megalegs.

Some people just love an argument..........

GreenSepticStumps · 17/10/2006 21:45

How about ROTB (room on the broom), that would do

lockets · 17/10/2006 21:45

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Message withdrawn

EnidVorhees · 17/10/2006 21:45

eh? I put two words in capitals

(mainly cos I cant be arsed to do the bold thing)