Is your husband turned on by the thought of you being intimate with another guy?

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It's actually quite common but guys tend to either not know, supress it or keep it a secret for various reasons.
It tends to reveal itself when a wife confesses to cheating and he finds himself with a raging hard-on.

I'm curious about how many couples are open about this.

There are usually clues such as the types of porn he watches, if he likes to watch you with a dildo (usually one bigger than his own dick), if he likes you to dress revealingly around other men etc.
You can usually test him by telling him about a "dream" or past experience you had where another guy gave you a mindblowing experience, he might protest verbally but his dick might say otherwise.

I asked him a little while ago when we were watching Bridgerton and they were having a MMF threesome. He said no, absolutely not. He has no interest in sharing me and the thought of having another man in our bed makes him feel sick (threesome perspective). Of course he’d be happy with FFM 🙄😂 I asked what he’d expect the set up to be and he suggested me with the woman and having sex with me but not touching her. I laughed my head off because I know full well he’d want more than that. He didn’t deny it but laughed too.

anyway we won’t be having threesomes therefore it’s moot, but to answer your question the answer is no, absolutely not.

No, he's actively against it. I've made jokes about it in the bedroom and he's very quick to shut it down. It's something I sometimes fantasise about doing. I have absolutely no interest in actually doing in real life and I want it to remain a fantasy only, but he struggles with the idea. However, he does like when other men are attracted to me, but know that they can't have me.

Absolutely no interest.
If I was single I wouldn’t even be interested in watching a man shag my fwb/fb.

In your OP you mention about a husband wanting his wife to dress revealingly. I think that it can be about possession. But less harmfully he wants to show how lucky he is that he has an attractive or sexy woman as his wife.
My exH wanted me to dress far more adventurously than I preferred. Even though some of our friends dressed more overtly sexual and the women liked to display themselves so it wan't domineering. IMO

Nope absolutely not. I would never want to be with another man anyway and my husband would not want me to. We are very much exclusive and happy that way.

So many men seem to love this.

Not mine!

Yep I would love it.

I never thought my XH was this way inclined during our 20 years of marriage. However:

When my marriage was over, but neither of us had admitted it, I drunkenly snogged a colleague. I told XH about it the next morning.

A few days after, he told me how turned on he was by me snogging another man. He loved the idea he got to fuck me when someone else wanted me. Particularly because the other man was charismatic, good looking, well loved in the community and a really good laugh. All unlike XH. It really turned XH on.

Well reader, who do you think my first boyfriend was after XH and I split? 😉

Current FWB has also mentioned he'd like to watch me fucking someone else.

I wish mine did like the thought of this. I think he’d turn himself inside out if I ever mentioned it. I can be flirtatious with other men sometimes (not seriously of course) but he doesn’t enjoy it, so he wouldn’t like the thought of other men wanting me.

what would you do if he changed his mind though?!

Its a big no from my man.
But of course as usual, he would like to watch me with another woman.
Men!! Dont you just love em lol

Would he want to have the extra woman as the finale to the session?

Mine’s not even interested in the addition of another woman. 😂

Nor am I to be honest.

This is a fantasy of mine which I will share with wife when I'm feeling brave, but without expectation of it coming to life. I can't speak for other men but appeal for me would be mix of voyeurism, doing something taboo and indulging her. Would have to be someone younger and decent looking though - quality control would be important!

He is definitely turned on by the thought of it, but has said he would hate it in reality. Fantasies are sometimes better left as fantasies.

Yes, DP likes to see me with another guy but only if he's involved too. He'd hate to be a cuck.

I've mentioned this before in other threads and the thought of my wife with another man is a huge, huge turn on for me.
I'd love to see her indulge herself in total pleasure.
Whether I'm involved in a threesome; whether I watch from across the room; or whether I wait in a hotel lobby/bar while she goes up to his room; each fantasy gets me very excited.
I'm not sure it'll will ever happen, in fact I doubt it will.
I'm fully cognisant that fantasies are often nothing like reality and some fantasies should always remain as just fantasies.

Oh he definitely does! It's a roleplay we've both been diving into and having loads of fun with. We've had some great discussions about it, and while we're still figuring out if we want to take it to the next level in real life, the idea has us both intrigued and excited. It's our little secret adventure! 😏

No and if any partner is willing to see you have sex with another them they dont care about you and have no respect for you.

Well done, the quickest way to split up im sure is to start bringing other people into the equation. Some people are obsessed with sex it seems.

My husband and I have done this quite a few times as well as mff threesomes, our marriage is stronger than ever

I think loads of guys would love to watch their partners with another man.

Funny you should mention that. I've met lots of couple that both love this dynamic. Just because it doesn't appeal to you, doesn't mean others are not interested in it.

I get that others may be interested but I don't believe you really love your partner etc if you want to see them with someone else.

I've seen it many times with my own eyes. Some of these relationships seem rock solid to me.