Is your husband turned on by the thought of you being intimate with another guy?

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It's actually quite common but guys tend to either not know, supress it or keep it a secret for various reasons.
It tends to reveal itself when a wife confesses to cheating and he finds himself with a raging hard-on.

I'm curious about how many couples are open about this.

There are usually clues such as the types of porn he watches, if he likes to watch you with a dildo (usually one bigger than his own dick), if he likes you to dress revealingly around other men etc.
You can usually test him by telling him about a "dream" or past experience you had where another guy gave you a mindblowing experience, he might protest verbally but his dick might say otherwise.

Why so?
What is it that you've read in this thread has tipped the balance?

I'm not sure what you mean by "offers" .

Men offering themselves to be the guy you have sex with while your husband watches, presumably.

This thread has been eye opening for me. OP hasn’t explicitly said this turns him on, but a couple of posts have got me thinking about it being a possibility. I was a virgin when I met OH and he’s the only man I’ve ever had sex with, but he knows that I’d had a couple of boyfriends before we met and I was intimate with them in other ways.
Anyway, occasionally OH will bring them up while we’re being intimate and he’ll ask me to describe them, and what they did to me/what I did to them etc, and he gets very excited by my descriptions. Is this what that is? I had always wondered whether it was partially because he was bisexual (or at least curious).
I don’t really want to ask him though, I would be happy to talk about it if he brought it up.. I know that sounds silly but he’s 20 years older than me (and had a lot more experience than me coming into the relationship) and I just really like him to take the lead with things like this.

Not necessarily. Bfs heard plenty of my stories of my wild days of outrageous behaviour. With guys, more than one guy and girls as well. This was before we enen started dating lol

I can’t imagine only being with one person. I didn’t achieve one week when l got started.

So far I haven't received any offers. It wouldn't matter anyway because I have no idea whether or not my husband would go for something like this anyway.