Is your husband turned on by the thought of you being intimate with another guy?

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It's actually quite common but guys tend to either not know, supress it or keep it a secret for various reasons.
It tends to reveal itself when a wife confesses to cheating and he finds himself with a raging hard-on.

I'm curious about how many couples are open about this.

There are usually clues such as the types of porn he watches, if he likes to watch you with a dildo (usually one bigger than his own dick), if he likes you to dress revealingly around other men etc.
You can usually test him by telling him about a "dream" or past experience you had where another guy gave you a mindblowing experience, he might protest verbally but his dick might say otherwise.

Why so?
What is it that you've read in this thread has tipped the balance?

I'm not sure what you mean by "offers" .

Men offering themselves to be the guy you have sex with while your husband watches, presumably.

This thread has been eye opening for me. OP hasn’t explicitly said this turns him on, but a couple of posts have got me thinking about it being a possibility. I was a virgin when I met OH and he’s the only man I’ve ever had sex with, but he knows that I’d had a couple of boyfriends before we met and I was intimate with them in other ways.
Anyway, occasionally OH will bring them up while we’re being intimate and he’ll ask me to describe them, and what they did to me/what I did to them etc, and he gets very excited by my descriptions. Is this what that is? I had always wondered whether it was partially because he was bisexual (or at least curious).
I don’t really want to ask him though, I would be happy to talk about it if he brought it up.. I know that sounds silly but he’s 20 years older than me (and had a lot more experience than me coming into the relationship) and I just really like him to take the lead with things like this.

Not necessarily. Bfs heard plenty of my stories of my wild days of outrageous behaviour. With guys, more than one guy and girls as well. This was before we enen started dating lol

I can’t imagine only being with one person. I didn’t achieve one week when l got started.

So far I haven't received any offers. It wouldn't matter anyway because I have no idea whether or not my husband would go for something like this anyway.

Lol I wld be intrested at least once but husband wld never

Now let's call your comment what it is: a subjective narrow minded opinion based on something that clearly you believe to be the case without any clear objective information or empirical evidence. Why should the wife worry about the husband sleeping with other women? Look up the definition of the word "compression".

Sorry, autocorrect struck. The word to look up is "compersion"

What is wrong with you? First you dont have to agree with what anyone else does with consenting adults.

But in this situation where a man is saying to his wife it wld really make me hapoy if you did date other men.... he is asking.... its a favour for him... why wld she then have to put up with him sleeping with another girl.... she didnt ask for an open relationship.... she shouldnt lose more by doing her husband a pretty fecking big favour!

What a muppit. Man asks for something woman gives it to him.. oh but some dafty online doesnt like it lol

This topics come up on the BBC News website:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c87q7g48y4po

Yes you are narrow-minded, simply because you don't acknowledge that others have the right within their own lives to live as they choose, and just because you believe you have ownership over someone else (as you clearly stated in your rant) it doesn't mean that everyone has to fall into line with your actually very illogical (though admittedly quite common, along with your claim of most of the rest of the world sharing your view is entirely based on your limited experience) and poorly informed opinion. I will assist you in helping you understand why you appear narrow-minded. Here is the definition: Being narrow-minded means being unwilling to consider new ideas or accept perspectives that differ from your own. It describes someone with a rigid, limited worldview who is intolerant of other people's opinions or experiences and tends to dismiss anything outside their comfort zone.Key Characteristics. Unreceptive: They struggle to accept foreign cultures, new lifestyles, or alternative ways of doing things. Intolerant: They easily dismiss differing beliefs, often viewing their own opinions as the only "correct" ones. Biased: Their judgments are frequently shaped by prejudice rather than objective reasoning or open discussion. Related Words & Opposite synonyms: Prejudiced, bigoted, insular, intolerant, and dogmatic.Antonyms: Broad-minded, tolerant, unbiased, and open-minded. Example in a Sentence"He refused to try any foreign food, demonstrating a narrow-minded attitude toward different cultures."For a deeper dive into the psychology behind cognitive inflexibility and more usage examples, you can check out the full breakdown on Vocabulary.com and yes I did copy and paste this to save you having to go and find out for yourself.
With all due respect I believe a further narrow-minded , bigoted rant will surely follow from you and I look forward to having a good laugh at it.

See! He bit and I am having a lovely giggle!

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